i don't know if you really understand what i mean but i sort of fit into every "clique" at my school. i just "kind of" fit in with most of them but i am not best friends with any of them. i sort of hang out with the "athletes" like people from my teams (field hockey,swimming,dance) but i also really like fashion and makeup, purses stuff like that. i also like art and i am very artsy. i am vegetarian and volunteer at spca so i fit in with animal rights people if you know what i mean. i am also at the international baccalaureate program and i am in a lot of clubs so people consider me a nerd. is this normal?? to "fit in with every clique"
2007-08-22 13:48:29 · 16 answers · asked by dcgirl 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sorry if this sounds stereotypical
2007-08-22 13:49:16 · update #1
Maybe you are just a person who has many different areas of interest and adapt to groups within each of these areas. You would fit because you are interested in the workings of the activities being pursued. Sports, which you enjoy; fashion, which includes being able to use your artistic side (makeup, fashion and maybe different forms of art (writing, painting, etc.); community service and working for groups which appeal to you. This is not something to worry about; this is something to celebrate! You will touch many lives by your interaction and participation in all of these areas of your interest. You don't have to be best friends with anyone but be an active participant and offer your ideas and input to make each group the best that it can be. It doesn't matter who thinks of you as a "nerd"; you are dancing to your own drummer and this is something to be proud of . Good for you! Keep up the good work and enjoy every aspect of your adventures in life. You are apparently, a very well rounded person and look to me to be someone who is pretty organized, as well. Wish there were more like you!
2007-08-22 14:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of great answers here!
What you "have" is a good thing, but I am guessing that you feel uncomfortable with it. You probably wouldn't have asked this question if you were comfortable.
The most important thing is-----Getting respect from everyone no matter what your interests are.
It is great to identify with everyone because of your varied interests, but you need to find your true strengths and run with them.
You will get plenty of respect, even from the people that are far different from you.
I didn't "fit" into every click in school, but because I had respect and an honest understanding of everyone, I acted accordingly and received respect and understanding.
This is as important today as is was then!
If your and my behaviour was "normal" the world would be an easier place to live!!!
2007-08-22 14:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by vande-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. I was the same way in school actually, or maybe the opposite. I had friends in every clique, but didn't really fit into any of them. I could come and go as I pleased through them and was accepted with any of them, but I wasn't really part of any.
You don't *have to* fit into any one clique, and actually it's better for you if you don't, I think, as you don't as easily get stereotyped by how those cliques treat others. Where jocks pick on nerds, or preps pick on punks, etc. You can make freinds anywhere because you can be a part of any group.
The most important thing is to be yourself. People will learn to see you for who you are - a well rounded individual with a lot of skills and merit. Be proud of your flexibility :)
Good Luck!
2007-08-22 14:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by firebugarts 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a great person.
That is what you want to do at this point in your life, try everything to find out what you really like.
I wish they had all that stuff to do when I was in school.
I don't know if it is normal for everyone, but if you like it, then it is normal for you.
You will build up a great personallity from experiencing all your interests.
Don't worry about someone considering you a nerd. Most of those people are just jealous of you anyway.
You are the one who is going to benefit from all the knowledge and fun.
2007-08-22 14:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's SUPER to fit into every clique! Most people limit themselves and miss out. (I knew just about everybody in school & guess who they called on to help with our reunion?)
It makes you a well-rounded and happy person, enjoy it! I'm proud of you to have so many varied interests. I predict you'll go far in life!
2007-08-22 14:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guessing you have a good personality and ability to communicate which helps you get along with people. And enough knowledge about your groups or "cliques" subjects.
People who share the same likes and "hang out" with others aren't always best friends, but friends just the same.
As long you're happy why worry? Enjoy it :-)
2007-08-22 14:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kid Fleetfoot 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a very good thing. You fit into many different groups of people. You have many interests. All of that is positive. Just think about the positive. :)
2007-08-22 14:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be 'normal' for you...it was the same for me also...only I had less groups than you apparently do. Join the clubs you enjoy and hang out with good people...you'll see that in a few years none of what the other people think about you will matter...you'll have adult things to think about and deal with.
2007-08-22 14:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its rather good, it gives you lots of connections, so its beneficial, really.
although i do know what you mean, like it would be nice to have a few really good friends, so maybe evaluate them all and decide who would fall into that category. or just who you get along with the most.
2007-08-22 14:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by scarheadlovesferret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it is not normal, but it is great. It shows you are a person with many interests and great people skills.
People like you are very important to connect members of our society who would never ever speak with each other, unless somebody like you brings them together.
2007-08-22 13:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by LGM 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋