I think about hurting people as in beating them up. Then when something bad happens to them i'm happy. I'm glad when bad things happen to them. Why do I feel such happiness when I hear my friend had a problem?
2007-08-22 13:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds like you have some serious issues. Are you happy with your life. I think that misery loves company. Maybe you feel horrible about yourself and you need other people to feel as bad as you and that's the reason why you get joy out of others pain. Yahoo answers can't help you. You need some type of professional help. maybe something happened to you in your life and you are angry If you are a god fearing person you need to ask for Gods divine help to get away from your evil ways. When something bad happens to you are you happy? Always remember carma is a mutha. What you wish on someone else or whats happening to someone and you rejoice over it will only send something twice as bad your way. Always make it a point to be happy for people in good times and to feel sorry for people in bad times. You need to talk to someone about your want to beat people up. Something is really wrong. I will pray for you and hope that you find help with this. Obviously it is bothering you or you would have not asked this question. Maybe your family or love one could help.
2007-08-22 13:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by godiz4me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't enough confidence in your own abilities and maybe even have some jealousy issues. It isn't healthy to feel happiness when someone is hurt or when bad things happen to them. I think you feel inferior and it makes you feel better about yourself when they are knocked down for whatever reason. This is a terrible way to go through life. If you tried to get a better attitude and think more positively rather than have all this negativeness, you would find yourself becoming a happier person. When your carry bitterness and anger within you and you wish bad thoughts on others, then you put out the same vibes to people who are trying to deal with you. You need to start doing things differently and find true happiness, not a vengefulness and delight in other people's misfortune. You need to learn to like yourself and look for the good in other people. If you are unable to do that, then you need to talk to a professional to see why you are so angry with other people (and yourself).
2007-08-22 13:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure.
I know that I stay numb most of the time.
Saying and doing are two diifferent things.
I think that in a way releasing stress is the coping mechanism to handle the hurt that caused it in the first place.
It's almost like avoiding the initial blow and reacting in a way that the mental physical body can handle.
2007-08-22 14:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel as you do, before I realized that I was hanging with a very contemptible crowd of people. I've had much less trouble with this since entering a witness protection program.
2007-08-22 13:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Souldogs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have a lot of anger built up in side of you. i would never wish bad for somebody cause that same person could be wishing the same for you. think good thoughts not evil ones. god bless you.
2007-08-22 13:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ted, you seriously need help before you become a serial killer or something. I know you're reaching out....please go talk to somebody before it's too late. You're in my prayers.
2007-08-22 14:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Crossfire Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a problem i think you need to see meidcal help with. its not a good sign. please do it before you hurt someone.
2007-08-22 13:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by nnatindahat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you unhappy inside yourself. if i were you would get help. Please do.
2007-08-22 13:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋