when my friend left the room the other day i broke something in his room on purpose. In my mind I was saying, there's something else less he has and a happy thoughts came to my mind. After I broke i hid it in the closet. I also have damaged expensive cars and i don't feel guilty about it. Why do I get such joy from this?
2007-08-22 13:15:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are giving in to avarice. Knock it off. You may be dis-associated from your emotions and it's possible that "mean" is all you can really feel - so you get the sense it feels good to feel anything at all.
Don't let destructive behavior become a habit because you'll really feel terrible when you've alienated all your potential friends - and will feel worse when you get caught and arrested for doing damage.
When you find yourself wanting to do something destructive, don't. It will get easier as you go. At the same time, start doing good things for people and notice how that feels - you may actually find happiness.
You may also want to see a counselor if this is really feeling like a compulsion. You're probably very angry about something deep inside and don't know what it is, but when you do something mean it lets off steam. Find out what's really going on. Talk to someone you can trust and work it out!
2007-08-22 13:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Obvious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you ever carried out something to electrify this kin? it kind of feels unusual that they could all basically flow outdoors and yell at you like that devoid of there being any difficulty until eventually now. in case you arn't truly under intense danger from them, there is not any ingredient getting the police in touch. additionally, videotaping the female will definetly reason a damaging reaction from the kin. the superb ingredient of do is to objective and forget approximately approximately it with a bit of luck the situation will die down, in case you flow out videotaping the kin will see that as an upsetting act, and is very possibly to function gasoline to the fire. of course for the kin to respond in that way, they sense threatened by using you someway. If attainable attempt to speak with them concerning the situation, while you're in a position to this can be the finest thank you to be sure the situation. the concern is that if those neighbours of yours are unreasonable human beings, the police won't remedy the concern. it is going to in basic terms increase right into a plenty worse undertaking. it relatively is likewise why i discussed to no longer action picture with the digicam. If those anybody is unreasonable, upsetting them won't help the situation.
2016-10-03 02:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN THE PAST someone has destroyed something precious of yours and you feel you are getting back at the world for bring this on you all the time
when you break the belong ings of others, do you feel bad about it at the moment you break it and are you afraid the Friend who's item you broke will not be your friend any longer?, what if you just said to him , I just about broke that item and caught it b4 it hit the floor. listen to his response and if he says he's thankful to you and really appreciate what you did for him...wouldn't you get a lift out of doing good; doing something constructive for a friend. soon you will have friends doing good things for you and you will want to appreciate all your friends belongings as your own and be glad they have a nice car and it shines like crazy and when you ride around in your friends car, you will be proud to be with him and chosen to be his friend and ride in his car.
2007-08-22 13:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You feel helpless when others have things that you think they don't deserve.
Destroying these things deprives them of the undeserved reward, and makes you feel powerful.
Keep up the good work, there are still many more people with undeserved goodies!
2007-08-22 13:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Souldogs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself about the flipside: how would you feel if someone broke something of yours out of shear enjoyment?
2007-08-22 13:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by damgenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. All humans have a certain satisfaction of seeing things destroyed.
2007-08-22 13:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend you are.Why don't you go get your own stuff and maybe someone will have jealousy attack and break it.Then you'll know what your victims feel like.
2007-08-22 17:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Impact 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you was to damage something of mine your liable to get your brain damaged by me. And then we will see if you are still happy.
2007-08-22 13:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont know yet how it feels for this to happen to you. You don't have empathy. Also you probably haven't been caught yet. You eventually will have to pay for your crimes.
2007-08-22 13:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by sup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoz you feel life does not treat you well.that life is being unfair to you. and you hate people who have better lives than you do.
2007-08-22 13:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋