Iwant my parents to realize what's wrong with me and I can't just say "Ineed help" because all thati'd get is a scolding.
same with a grade drop, all I'd get is a scolding.
HELP
2007-08-22 12:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I want to tell my PARENTS
And i want more attention(I know that sounds bad, but i do)
2007-08-22 12:42:35 · update #1
how about you sit down and talk with them.. instead of hinting around (no one gets hints) just tell them (yes it is hard but you can do it)
mom dad i hate life and i'm sad I think i need help. maybe i'm just a normal teen but will you comfort me with your words and help me see my life from your eyes or get me some help here is why i feel i need help
1. list your reasons
2. hope you have more then one
3. three is key!
4. top it off with a bonus unless you have more then go for it!
the main point is you can drop your grade that is only going to hurt you and your parents may not put togther the puzzle of that is you needing help. they could think (oh she must of failed a test she better learn so yell yell bla bla )
You need to tell them how you feel they can't read your mind and you can leave as many hints as you want even trying to kill yourself isn't a way it's another hint!
stop the hints if you want help ask for it!
Trust me it is hard but once you start doing this it does get easier there for you won't feel so "Left out or way in left feild"
Remember the squeaky wheel gets the grease!!!
SQUEAK UP!
2007-08-23 02:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your parents aren't giving you the support you need, start by talking to a school counsellor. They can't help with all your problems, but they can help find directions where you CAN get answers. Also try talking to a favorite aunt, uncle or older cousin, if they live near enough to you.
As for trying to get help by "trying" to kill yourself, that is no kind of a solution. It would cause needless suffering of friends and family members who do care, and what if something goes wrong and you succeed? There isn't any help for that!!
2007-08-22 19:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by prnigel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask to see a doctor because you're feeling really ill. Tell the doctor about your depression.
2007-08-22 19:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by dweebken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a doctors appointment. talk to the doctor. explain how you feel. talk to your school counselor. Don't give up. keep talking. It works. if you have to, call the crisis center if you are in a bad state. they can help too.
2007-08-22 21:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about you solve your problem on your own isntead of lying to get their attention.
2007-08-22 20:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋