What's a normal sex life while in your early twenties? I'm in a relationship with a guy, and I have no idea what a normal relationship is or a normal/healthy sex life is. I would really like some input. Sometimes I feel like our relationship is crappy and that it lacks (I can't pinput where, but it just isn't that much of a fulfilling relationship to me) somewhere. We seem to connect more sexually then anything. Don't get me wrong though, my boyfriend is extremely nice, respectful, and caring, it's just that I don't think our relationship is going to last long. We have a lot of sex, which is great and all, but I feel like I want more..? Help Please, I'm confused. What should I want? What's a normal relationship at 22yrsold? A lot of the time I feel like I want to get married, not to my current b/f, but I want to settle down soon. And I'm just fighting the urge because I haven't found someone who I TRULY connect with yet. Thanks for any input.
2007-08-22 10:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your sex relationship is short changing you..get out of bed and do something together..that is make a planning..like getting a home, car, joint accounts and stuff dealing with two persons in partnership..see if it works..if it doesn't work as a partnership then it wont work as a married couple. Work out the issues together and talk about all that matters to you both as a team.
2007-08-22 10:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from PMS-Pre-Marital Sex. The only cure: Abstinence!
Yes, pre-marital sex will leave you felling empty. It is so meaningless in comparison to other emotions normal in life. It is not fair to have to have sex without a deep connection or the guy having obligations to love and care for you forever. You should know how easy it is for the pill to fail or a condom to break and no one should HAVE to be a single mom as punishment for PMS. You and your future children deserve so MUCH MORE.
Yes, it time to break it off and move on. But next time, don't deal with PMS. Wait for marriage. It is more likely to give you a healthy marriage than anything else...
2007-08-22 10:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your future spouse should be your best friend. You should be able to talk, dance, watch TV or shop with him and have the hots for him at the same time. You should even have a spiritual connection. Break it up with the great-sex guy and start looking for the forever and a day guy.
2007-08-22 10:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, break up with this guy and wait for one you will feel fulfilled by to come along^^.S Simple as that. Make a mindmovie [www.mindmovies.com] if you have to. Visualize what the guy's gonna look like..picture ur idela relationship...but u ahve to do it a lot.. Good luck. Just don't give up keep doing it..it will come ^^.
2007-08-22 10:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Parker232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're learning all about it already. And I'm equally sure that when the right guy comes by- you're going to try to grab him. Sounds perfectly normal to me, (and by the way, you sound like a good catch) so don't feel so insecure about it. Life may be short, but it sounds healthy from your end. Good luck!
2007-08-22 10:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it easy, we all understand!!
2007-08-22 10:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋