Okay, when I was little I went to a babysitter and I had this friend(lets call him Bob), and he was like my best friend. I'm two years older then him...I'm a Junior in high school and He's a Freshman...I haven't talk to him in a really long time...I said hi to him the other day and I don't think he really wanted to talk to me. But he's having a really hard time...his mom just tried to kill herself, and their power and water and all that stuff just got cut off...I want to know what I can do to help him. I want to write a letter and tell him that I'm here if he ever needs me and I still love him because he was one of my best friends...but do you think this would make things worse?
I'm really afraid that he's going to get pushed to his limit and do something stupid like his mom tried...I just want to help...what do you think about the letter?
2007-08-22 10:17:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Call DSS and see if they will check on things.
2007-08-22 10:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by sue-sue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be surprised how a little note can make someones day. I wrote a letter to someone a while ago. We grew apart, and we don't talk much anymore, but that letter made things a little brighter for him. Sometimes, just knowing that you have someone in your corner can make you feel good. Don't put any of his problems in the letter because he doesn't need to be reminded of them. Just make a nice friendly note saying how you are still his friend, you care about him, and you'll always be there for him whenever he needs it. Let the letter do the talking. By that, I mean don't approach him and ask him if he got the letter, or did he read the letter. Let him come to you when he's ready. And even if he never does, I bet he'll keep that letter and read it whenever he's having a hard time.
2007-08-22 17:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure write that letter. It very well may be all that he would have to hold on to right now. Knowing someone cares sometimes is a great lift. Maybe he will confide in you and maybe he won't but at least you tried. I would say that your letter should be kind of short and to the point. You don't want him to think that you are just trying to get in his business.
2007-08-22 17:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Wilma S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the letters a sweet thing but then again i don't know what kind of person he is so you might wanna be really careful in what you say in the letter, but also talk to your parent/guardian because this may be a life and death situation. I hope your friend gets through this :]
2007-08-22 17:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letter, phone call, face-to-face conversation - whichever way you decide, he will probably appreciate knowing you are there for him. Just don't get too pushy, let him tell you as much or as little as he wishes. It might be nothing at all, but I bet he still appreciates the kind gesture.
2007-08-22 17:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, write the letter. Maybe he'll feel better knowing you are there. THEN, talk to your mom. There are people that can help them with their situation. Ignoring it wont make it go away.
2007-08-22 17:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would probably try to reach out to him, become his friend (again). Everything is always better when you have someone that's your friend who you can talk to! But, make sure you give him his space. If he says he's doesn't feel like talking right now, leave him alone for a bit. Just...subtle kindness, I suppose.
2007-08-22 17:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by schnicklefritzinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very sweet. Instead of the letter, why don't you just tell him yourself. Just let him know that you're there for him if he needs to vent.
2007-08-22 17:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems like a good idea!! He needs a little comfort and support right now.
2007-08-22 17:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Miss §hopaholic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going through a rough life - give him time to re-group; soon enough he'll be ready to talk to you again.
2007-08-22 17:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋