Can young people live in a senior citizen complex ?

Question

I can't stand living among people in my age group. Most are loud, inconsiderate, materialistic, shallow and have nothing in common with me. I have a 3 years old daughter and why would I want her to grow up around a bunch of people who thrives on instant gratifications ? On the otherhand, I found senior citizens to be the greatest group of people on earth. They are kind, patience, encouraging and ALWAYS have something to share which will benefit my personal growth. Each one I met is like a walking book and each one is wise in their own ways.....But housing laws and legislations usually does not allow younger tenants to move in. I think this is prejudice and borderline unconstitutional.

Answer 1

You know, I wish we could. I live right next door to a senior complex and it looks so peaceful. Mine is not necessarily out of control, by people lack simple consideration and are concerned about things that I find insignificant. The music is too loud, the doors slam too hard, and people let their kids yell and play right outside your window instead of spending time with them after they get home from school. Now, I'm not just talking about people in their 20s like myself. I'm talking about 30, 40, and reaching 50 year olds who you'd think would be much more mature than me.

I live with my mother while I'm in school (who's 57) and I'm going to see if we can move into one of these communities. I doubt they would take us (you or I) on our own because the communities are specific about age requirements. I guess that's how they keep them so peaceful, so we can't be too angry about it. Seniors need their own space anyway, as most things aren't geared or marketed toward their age group in general, unless specifically created or tailored for seniors.

I'm not sure what type of area you live in, but sometimes you can find a community where most people are alike, and you can decide if that fits you. In some places, there are more families, and therefore, less single party-ers. In others, there are more business professionals who are gone most of the time and keep to themselves. Then you have places where there are a variety of cultures, many who may be recent immigrants with at least one older person in the household, and depending on the general attitudes there and how well people get along, may be the most beneficial atmosphere to a child growing up. Best wishes : )

Answer 2

No. The reason they are called Senior Citizen complex is that young people are not allowed to live there. Otherewise, they would be just like any other place. Young ones can visit, but not stay more than 2 weeks in most senior housing. You must be 55 or older in most, or married to someone that is. Adult children over age 21 can also live in them.

Answer 3

A lot of those places are state-run, but some are privately owned. You could always try calling the housing complex directly and asking if they allow younger people and if so, on what conditions. A nice place near where I live was for seniors, but they were required to have 20% non-seniors living there also. You never know what you'll find when you ask around.

Answer 4

As a person who is rapidly entering the age group of "Geezer", I can answer your question from a practical standpoint.

First of all, thank you for complimenting my age group! You made my day! I am quite often considered an oldster know-nothing who is out of the loop. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

It does appear to be a prejudice if a community chooses to rent only to older people (most generally age 55 and over depending on the state of the community). However, if you look at it from the other side, it isn't. Rephrase the statement to read, "I love children but don't want them playing in the swimming pool while I'm there because I'm very slow and like a lot of quiet. Plus, I've already raised my family and I adore my grandkids, but need to be around adults now and just visit the kids. I want to swim without boisterous splashing, play pickle ball without teenagers laughing at my flabby thighs. But, the owners of my apartment complex said they have to allow people with kids to move in. I think this is prejudice against people who want to live where there are no children."

It's pretty much the same thing, as you can tell. That is why, from a legal standpoint, retirement villages and complexes have withstood lawsuits and been allowed to keep their limitations with regard to age. Older people should have the right to live with their peer group, seniors, the same as younger people should have the right to live among families with children.

Fortunately, there are also places that have a predominant number of older adults merely due to serendipity and perhaps you could find a place such as that?

Answer 5

I don't know where you live, but generally you have to be 50 years old. What lovely comments you have to say about Seniors. You should post this of the general site.

Most people your ge think we are just a lot of old "lost the plot" people.

They don't realise that many of us are still slim, still work out in the gym, keep up with current affairs (and probably have more understanding of them). We still feel sixteen in our minds, but sometimes our bodies betray us.

And what's a few wrinkles between friends? I always admired the late Kathryn Hepburn. Such beautiful bone structure but she just grew old gracefully. No cosmetic surgery.

Answer 6

Most retirement areas require that you be at least 45 to live there, at least 55 to own their. As company, usually the limit is 3-4 days...but I suspect that varies from place to place.
This case has been tried before and thrown out of courts...the residence have the right to chose an age group to sell to, but cannot be biased against race, religion, etc. A retirement villiage is just that...for older folks who do not wish to live in a world you describe. Good luck

Answer 7

Someone could answer my question Please! I am 55 years old and just bought a mobile home in Kona Kai Senior park in Santa Ana California. My wife is 50 yrs old and they do not allow my wife to live in! What could I do? Is there any laws to fight against this?

Answer 8

Not in calif. one person has to be 55 or older, a spouse can be younger. There is one exception, housing for seniors or disabled young adults .

Answer 9

Be fair to your child--she needs friends to play with to grow up with and teach and learn from. A senior site is not the place for her. Once you find the spot you can take her to places where she can learn from Seniors and give and get a hug. Best of luck to you.

Answer 10

It's not that WE have anything
against younger people...In fact
I really miss hearing kids play...
but most Sr rentals or Sr
complexes are for 55 and up.
There are some that allow
grandkids for awhile--find a
grandma and ask her.
By the way thanks for
"kissing up", I love it.