i feel so alone and miserable with my ED. I am seeing a counsellor weekly, just had my 1st session, and i just dont seem to be able to shake the feeling that maybe it wont work for me, maybe i dont even want it to work.
Half of me wants to recover, but the other half doesnt, and i dont know why.
people seem to assume that Eds are for teenagers, but i am a 27 year old woman, and have had my ED for nearly 13 years, on and off.
I just need to know if anyone else has had an ED and recovered? Is it possible?
2007-08-22 07:27:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Does anyone know of any chat rooms i can go to for support?
2007-08-22 07:33:36 · update #1
Hey hun!
I do know where you are coming from im 24, i have links to some places if you want just email me and we can talk further. Take care, and i know what you mean by not wanting help xx
Ps Keep away from Barbie Doll shes lying!!
2007-08-23 04:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely possible to recover from an ED and you've made the biggest step by approaching a councillor and starting the process. It won't be easy but you CAN do it. You just need to believe you can.
I am a Wellness coach and can potentially help you in getting your Inner Health back on track.
If you are interested I can put you on an initial diet which gives you maximum nutrition in minimum calories. One of the biggest dangers with an ED is the fact that you are not getting the nutrition that your body needs to stay healthy. This will lead to a weak immune system amongst other things and If you are lacking in certain nutrients and minerals your mood will be naturally low which will not help you in your recovery process.
You've taken the biggest step by admitting you have a problem and seeing a councillor. Now let's focus on getting you healthy on the inside.
If you are interested then please contact me on dsaunders@herbalcare4u.co.uk I will give you a free 1:1 service all the way through.
2007-08-23 00:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by dizzysaunders22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have several options. You are certainly not alone. AND you have made the first step to recovery by going to a counselor. You may want to ask your therapist about some local support groups that are available in your area. Eating Disorders are common in both men and women. My boyfriend has several eating disorders. You should search for support groups on google. Just type in eating disorders, then your sity and state. Chances are, there is a support group within 50 miles.
It's a long, tough road. The more you educate yourself, the more you will recover. Recovery takes an honesty with yourself that is often painful. Nobody likes to be totally honest with themselves, me included. Good luck. Stay strong. Don't give up. Don't feel bad if you make a mistake. You may find yourself back to square one many times. It's okay. Strive for progress, not perfection!
2007-08-22 07:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not the only one. I had an eating disorder and didn't even realize it until I saw pictures of myself years later. There is all this pressure for us to have model figures and be super skinny because of what they show on tv and mtv. There is hope out there for you. I am the same age as you and I have been battling with weight gain that I never had a problem with. Now I don't have as much time to exercise. You did the right thing by admitting you have a problem. It probably seems like you are the only one because you don't have a good friend to talk to about it. Try http://www.anad.org for a list of support groups in your area. Good luck. You are not alone!
2007-08-22 07:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is differently possible to recover if YOU want it badly enough.
You have only had one session... give it more time. Work with the therapist.... You may need to go into a treatment facility to get concentrated every day treatment.
Remember Tracy Gold? She recovered from ED So has Scarlett Pomers....
You can do this. It may take baby steps just don't give up.... you have 13 years to overcome, but you Can Do It!
2007-08-22 07:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak totally from experiance...my sister has had an eating disorder, and recovered from it. However, she and I are both below normal weight, we both run in college, and we both eat pretty healthy. However, she has remained a light eater, eating primarily salads and other organic foods and vegetables, and literally no fat or sugars in her diet. She looks a lot better now though, and is not controlled by her diet, she is able to focus on the other aspects of her life and I would not consider her now to have an ED. Best of luck!
2007-08-22 07:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by biologynerd19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is help out there for people with E.D have you heard of hypno-analysis? Ive heard it is successful for the treatment of E.D and anxiety disorders why dont you have a look on this website for more information and if you cant find what you are looking for contact him he will be able to point you in the right direction and anyone else who has this problem. Good luck
2007-08-22 07:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by h.taylor2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The half vs half thing is normal.
My partner is male , 47 and is bulimic. So it's not just teen girls. He's in "recovery", he now goes to the gym twice a week, and is eating, not much but enough. He's looking fantastic now, he was so skinny when we met 6 1/2 yrs ago. His first wife died 8 years ago of anorexia, he feels that he "gave" it to her.
2007-08-22 07:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your counselor, give your self some time, just hang in there, let her help you. I know a lot of people that have recovered. The first step is to believe that you can recover from it like any other diseases.
2007-08-22 07:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Viola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋