Is there anyone you would want to have just a few more minutes with?

Question

Anybody you just wish you could have a few more minutes with, whether they be alive or passed away, or a long lost friend or relative..........i wish i could give my grams a kiss one last time, and tell her i love her.....and my mom, i wish i could just hear her voice.....anybody for you?

what would you say to them? how would you feel?

i have to just say thank you to everyone who has answered so far, and anyone who will answer, because it means a lot to me to know there are others who hurt like i do. many of the answers i read i have cried to (teary eyed) because i can relate. my mom passed away when i was 1yr old and my grams passed away january 26, 2001 and she was my best friend in the whole world, besides my other gramma who was my mom's mom. i would also like to talk to my uncle again, he died from non-hodgkins lymphoma a few months ago and he was my dad's best friend. i appreciate people opening up and talking about what makes them hurt.....thanks again. keep the answers coming! it feels good to get it out!

Answer 1

yes my mom ,i wouldn't have to say aword,just be with her a few more mins.<>IS<>

Answer 2

my dad he passed 6 years ago and i was his primary care giver during those last 8 months i wish i could talk to him every day i miss him more the words can say.he was the one person that i could tell anything too i miss his kindness and generosity, his humor, his laugh, his knowledge, and of all things playing cards with him. there are still days that i go to the phone and start to dial and remember i can't do that cause hes not there. I wish that i could have met my one aunt every one in the family says that I'm just like her i would be interesting to see if it is so

Answer 3

My Papa (Grandfather). He died the day before spring break when I was in 6th grade. My mother thought it wouldn't be right to pull me out of school that day to say goodbye to him. My Papa was the most important, influential, loving person to me. I loved him so much, and to this day, still think he is alive and that they played a joke on me. He was cremated, so I never saw a body. I never got to say goodbye, or hug him, or tell him I love him. I wish he would come home...I miss him so much! I know he would be so proud of what I have become! He would dote on my son so much, like he did to me...He was awesome with kids! He was so creative and such an artist. He was someone you could really look up to as an awesome survivor. He survived WWII. Concentration camps, Nazis, beatings, starvation, losing his wife and child in the war, etc. He was an amazing person.

I love you Papa!

Answer 4

There are 2 ladies that I would more time with.
The first was a girl named Jessica Smithton, we dated for five years we knew each other for about 12 years, I asked her to marry me on her 17 birthday and she said yes; about a month later she found out that one of the guys I knew from school was throwing a party she was wanting to go and wanted me to go with her, I could not because I had to work. She kept on bugging me about it, the last time I kind snapped, said some things to her that was not nice and things that were hurtful, she left crying. Jessica asked one of her friends to go, they went to the party got drunk and on there way home they got in to a car accident, Jessica did not make it to the hospital, her friend live a little more that a day in the ICU. I would love to be able to tell Jessica how sorry I am for saying the things that I said, how sorry I am for not going with her, how much I love and miss her. I would Love to be able to jest hold her hand one more time, to here her laugh one more time, and to hear her say I love you Corey one more time.

The other is a girl that I meet in college named Georgia Hagler that I have fallen in love with, we became pretty good friend for a while, I got the feeling that she had feeling for me, but I never worked up the never to ask her out and to tell her how I feel about her, because I was afraid that I would lose her as a friend, over the last 8 month I have called her, emailed her and have only got a one or two responses from her. I would love to jest go and hang out with her, to tell her how I feel about her, and to ask why she has decided to not talk to me any more, because she has never given me a reason for how she is treating me.

Answer 5

It would be my dad for sure. He passed away 17 years ago. I would do anything to tell him I love him and give him a hug and kiss. He used to always ask me to make him a cup of coffee. I always groaned about doing it - I was a teenager. I wish I could make him a cup now. :(

Second would be my grandmother. I was only 14 when she died. I wish I had known her as I got to be an adult.

Answer 6

I see him everyday, but he isnt who he used to be. He was my best friend and we could talk for hours and hours on end. He was my fight when I didnt have any left in me, but now he is just the guy I see everyday. We were best friends all through elementary school, but then we hit the 7th grade and then 8th. He changed so much in those two years. Into a person that nobody really cared about, except for me. But all he did to me when I tried to talk to him was push me away. We're going into the 11th grade now and he still chooses to be the one that doesnt have any true friends. He is so fake and he wants to be that way to get "friends." But he had true ones before. I wish for just a couple of minutes he would come back and be who he truely is to himself and to me. I want to share a laugh like we used to. I want to talk to the true him and help him realise that he had a better life without his "friends" and a better one with us, his real friends. The only advancedment in not having his true friends is being with the so called popular croud. He was more popular to us than he is to them. I only wish....just once....for 2 minutes.

Answer 7

I wish I could have just 5 more minutes with one of my ex-boyfriends. I would fess up and tell him how I really feel. I heard he's changed over the years, become a snob. I hope that in that 5 minutes I could prevent someone so special from becoming a typical jerk.

Answer 8

Definitely my Gramma, she lived next door to us my entire childhood, so she was like a 2nd mother to me. She was so funny, we would laugh all the time. She's been gone 7 years and I couldn't even describe how much I miss her, and how much I would give to just have a few more minutes with her.

Answer 9

Yes, My parents! My dad died when I was 8, and I barely even got to know him. My mom died when I was 18.
I miss them and would love to able to give them one more hug, one more kiss goodnight. One more chance to say I love you, I'm sorry, I need you, I miss you. One more chance to hear them say they love me too.
I would have loved for them to see my kids grow up, and now my grandkids.
We get this attitude that we don't need our parents, that we are so much smarter or what ever. We fail to realize that our time together is so short and we should appreciate what little time we have together.
There are people who have their parents still with them, yet they are too busy to appreciate them, won't call them, won't go see them. Perhaps for what ever reason they are mad at their parents and refuse to spend time together.
When the parents time to leave the earth comes, you have lost all chances to get that last hug, that last bit of kindess, the unconditional love, the last chance to make amends.
I would love to have just one more day with mom mom, to get a hug from her, to tell her how much I thank her for all she did for me.
Just one more day would be so nice.

Answer 10

This guy named Malik. If it was just us, the end of the world, I would like to tell him how perfect we are for each other. How I like all the same things he likes, and why can't he see that we are good together. Not excatly all that special, but it would be nice to get off my chest. Even if he didn't like me back, I just wish I could tell him, you know? Then I can forget about him forever, and move on with my life.....

Answer 11

I would want to send a few more minutes with my great grandpa so that I could tell him that I love him. It would make me feel a lot better about it because I never got to say good bye to him and it hurt a lot.