I have had many intercourses with my bf but I still find it extremely painful just like the first time.We have tried using lots and lots of lubricants,longer foreplay times,lubricated condoms but nothing helps.I tried inserting my two fingers inside my vagina.There was a hard round wall which was holding my fingers tight.Could that be hymen?Is it possible that my hymen is still intact?
2007-08-22 06:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I doubt it.
They do make vaginal stretchers if it is really small.
There are a series if increasing diameter rods.
Talk to you gyno.
2007-08-22 06:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just have a small vaginal opening. My last gf was like that, although it wasn't painful like yours. We had to use lots of lube and start real slow. Once we got it going it was good. Sounds like you need more help though. Is your bf really big? That could be part of the problem too.
Talk to your doctor or gynecologist.
2007-08-22 13:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shoeless Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it is not your hymen. There is a very strong ring of muscle at the entrance of your vagina, and it may just require that you relax...because if that muscle is too tense, it WILL hurt.
If things don't get better, consider making an appointment with your doctor and have a full exam done and discuss your problem and options with him/her.
2007-08-22 13:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is likely. i was dating a girl a few years back. i was 26 and she was 21. she had been with 4 other guys before me, and the 1st time we had sex, her hymen broke. evidently, the other 4 guys were very small in the penis department. not that im huge, but the extra size caused it to finally break.
you can do this 1 of several ways.
1. continue the way it is until it breaks.
2. go to a sex shop and buy a large vibrator or dildo.
3. find another partner that is larger than your b/f. this isnt the best option, but it would work.
before you try any of these things though, i would go to a doctor to make sure this is the problem. a girl im talking to now has a bladder inflamation that makes sex painful. it could be many things.
2007-08-22 13:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by bowke28 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Its very possible. It took this one girl several tries before hers broke. It can strecth and that is probably what you are feeling. It will be painful until it breaks, so you could have your boyfriend force it on the first time, and it should hopefully break. Then, you can enjoy the pleasure of sex, and not pain.
2007-08-22 13:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by George P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋