I've been married for 4 years and only have one child that is 16 months old. I really want another child at least one more. We originally wanted 4 kids but after the first one it was too much for my husband. I really want one more and if I get pregnant now they will be 2 years apart the perfect age. They will still want to play with eachother, my husband wants to wait at least 4 more years to have another one if we have one at all. I want to trick him into getting pregnant because I am the one that will take care of the baby anyway. Should I trick him or not?
2007-08-22 04:24:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Marriage is based upon trust and understanding. By tricking your husband into getting you pregnant you risk a lot of problems in your marriage that may not be worth it. Having another child is a big deal and requires a lot of time and planning by the parents TOGETHER.
2007-08-22 04:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by hefillsmylifewithgoodthings 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Trick husband into getting pregnant?
2014-12-18 17:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricking your husband into getting you pregnant? That's so, how should I say this, piggish? And you actually recited wedding vows? People like you are the reason that the divorce rate is 50% in this country.
Let me say this. I'm not ready to have kids at this point. If my wife "tricks" me into her becoming pregant, she can figure out for herself on how to take care of the kid. We'd be getting a divorce in a second. Then she may have to do alot of "tricking" just to make ends meet without me if you know what I mean.
Tricking your husband is pretty serious, maybe you should think it over.
2007-08-22 07:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a decision that should be made by you AND your husband. I don't think it's a good idea to "trick" your husband into getting you pregnant. If you do end up doing it anyway (not the best decision) your husband will most likely eventually come around but I really don't think it's a good idea in the first place.
2007-08-22 04:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, do not trick him into it. He may figure out that you got pregnant on purpose (and against his consent) and it could cause problems in your marriage. You cannot look at it as this being your choice because you take care of the children. This would be his child too so he should have equal say in when it is conceived. You should sit down and come to a compromise, maybe explain to him about how you feel about having them close together, address the pros and cons of each age gap and make a decison together.
2007-08-22 04:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Mommy of 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bigger issue than wanting a baby here. Tricking your husband? Get real. He will end up hating you for trapping him with more kids, hate the kid, and eventually take it out on both. NOt a good idea. If you have to wait a few more years what's the big deal? Quit trying to keep up with your friends, and enjoy the kid you have now. If you are lucky to have another in a few years, your fianances will be better to afford it. Kids are expensive, college is expensive. Give up
the trickery and talk to the man. He may surprise you. If not, you have one good one, he is the prize. You have this unreal idea of perfect. There is no perfect. You already have it. Never force kids on a man, its a kicker to divorce or an unhappy marriage.
2007-08-22 04:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by cruisepuppy7452a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not trick your husband. Trust is a huge issue in a marriage. Try siting down with your husband and expressing your wish to get pregnant. Have a serious talk with him. Also remind him that you and he went into the marriage both wanting four kids, and that you will compromise with him to have two. Good luck to you.
2007-08-22 04:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is not right to force someone into something especially something that comes with that big of a responsibility. Think about it. You wouldn't want to be tricked into something by a stranger let alone by your own loved one. Think about the saying what comes around goes around so I wouldn't even go there. I would discuss your reasons as to wanting a baby now. Explain that you can use alot of stuff from your other baby but if you wait 4 years that stuff will be out of date and you will have to buy all new. If he is dead set on no I would drop it if you want your marriage to work. He has already compromised with you because you have one baby at least. Good luck
2007-08-22 04:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by HONEYB1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your husband and tricking him is a form of betrayal. Your husband is the last person you should ever want to betray or lie to.
Talk to him about it again and express your desire so you two can possibly work out a compromise.
Tricking him could be the ruination of your relationship then you would have two children that would have to do visitation as a result of a broken home.
2007-08-22 04:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Chick-A- Deedle 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
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