now when we go to have sex, i think about that night and lose my erection. the more i think about it, i lose it. i know i need to relax and get it out of my head but it difficult to not think about it. its frustrating. any suggestions? seriously.
2007-08-22 03:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. X 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You have to ask your couple to help you, if you are thinking about it you will be to stressed to be able to relax and get an erection.
It is quite normal, just don't make a big issue about it, stop thinking you can't have an erection and start enjoying your couple. If the problem persists, talk to a specialist. but honestly think it is all in the mind.
2007-08-22 03:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you know the problem and the answer already. Only thing I can suggest is to stop masturbating for 2 weeks and don;t even try to have sex. Instead let yoru gf undress you and lay you out naked and do as she pleases with your naked body except have sex. I suspect within the 2 weeks you will forget you ever had a problem getting erect.
2007-08-25 23:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are generally young, it most likely is a mental cause, although physical erection strengthening exercises can help. Check out Mistermanpower.com. It has a guide on how to overcome both. Worked for me.
2007-08-22 03:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your best answer with non-medical help:
The obvious, don't spank off prior to seeing her.
Next, a 30 minute week out on the weights twice a week will speed up your vigor. I'm 37 and it works for me quite fine.
When I don't work out, I too have problems, and have done the testosterone pills - but strongly recommend against them because they make your moods more "snappy."
2007-08-22 04:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a castration and taking testosterone supplements can make you better in the bed. Endurance increases and the lack of ejaculation means you can satisfy your partner more.
2007-08-22 04:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some kegal excerise!
When you got urinate just flex your muscles and get the flow to stop do this a few times every time and it might help
2007-08-22 04:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax. and think bout how hot she is and how horny she make u and i bet u will get it back just like that. gud luck m8
2007-08-22 03:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her help you get one.
2007-08-22 05:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋