Sleeping with a prostitute?

Question

This is for everyone, Im 22 and still a virgin I have given up trying to woo a woman the normal way so have decided I will sleep with a prostitute. Im also a christian and would like to know how God looks upon this. Could u give me the passages i should look at in the bible? Also are there any christian men who are or have been in my situation and tell me your way of dealing with it and experience? thank you for reading no silly answers please.

Answer 1

You're only 22 it's not like you won't ever meet a woman and since you are Christian you will proberly be looking for a fellow Christian right? They won't be very impressed you had sex outside marriage especially with a prostitue! lol

Go to church functions, outings etc. Get fellow Christians to set you up with someone in their circle. Join Christian based yahoo groups and/or message boards. Take up a hobby, take a course at community collage. Look and see if there are any free Christian online match making services.

Ask yourself is it something about your personality ie are you too shy around woman? Maybe read some books or online articles about relationships and attracting the opposite sex.

Answer 2

God would not look upon you favourably for sleeping with a prostitute. God has forbidden sex before marriage, sex is supposed to be something special between a husband and a wife. You probably know that the Bible tells us that fornicators will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
There's also a question of your own safety. The chances of contracting STDs from prostitutes is much higher than average. As a Christian your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, if you do sleep with a prostitute you are defiling, even desecrating the Temple of God.
You should be praying for the girls and women who are involved, sometimes against their will in this awful 'business',. You should NOT be using them like everyone else. Give them your respect and love..not your money.
If you're a Christian then you should know all this. Trust God. Pray to Him that you will meet someone that He has chosen for you and pray for the strength to resist temptation.
God bless

Answer 3

There are many passages in the Bible that does say not to fornicate. The best place for looking up passages I have found is . Then click the site "Scriptures" and it give you the group scriptures that Mormons read. This includes the Old and New Testament. There is also a Topical Guide that alphabetical gives you certain subjects to look up. I am a Mormon, but this I feel would be something that would of use to any other believer of a different Christian sect. And don't listen to zeppelin_roses.

As for you zeppelin_roses:
Have you been living in a cave or what. Prostitution is one of the most dangerous and illegal professions around. Not only are they prone to drug and alcohol abuse, they are also prone to murder and diseases, especially HIV and AIDS. To advise this person that it is ok and safe to be with a prostitute is in itself the most foolish thing to say. You need to check your facts.

Answer 4

Take a look at yourself for a moment not the bible. If you use prostitues then it will cause you turmoil in the future, many men who do this become reliant on it, they can't meet women normally and make emotional commitments as they never learnt how to. Also, should you meet a woman in the furture you love how would she react to the fact the have used prostitutes? It is also too risky, you could catch something, end up in prison for curb crawling. It is also a cruel trade, many of these women rely on prostitution to fund drug habbits.
Why not forget about sex for now. Try a new hobby where you can meet new people. If you focus on being young and having fun you will attract ladies, we like a man who is fun to be around! Ask friends to set you up on blind dates, try internet dating, my uncle recently got married to a lovely lady he met on an online dating site.
I am not a christian anymore so I won't start bible quoting. This is a personal issue not a religious one.

Answer 5

Well, if you go to a prostitute you can pay to have the physical experience of sex that you think you require. If she is good at her job she will fulfil whatever service you have paid for, as with any other industry.
What you won't experience is the intimacy and emotion of sharing the act, that is so important to the experience.
I have no idea how God would look upon this, nor am I going to moralise. What I will say is that as a spiritual individual you might consider how this will benefit you as a whole in justing acting out the physical process.

Answer 6

Well if you are religious then surely you shouldn't!
Proverbs 23:27-28 says, "A prostitute is a deep pit; an adulterous woman is treacherous. She hides and waits like a robber, looking for another victim who will be unfaithful to his wife."

God forbids involvement with prostitutes. "For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell" (Proverbs 5:3-5).

To a non-christian I would say do what you think is right but if you do go for it make sure you pick a reputable company or brothel & wear protection and it's fine it is after all
"Your Choice!!!"!

But I think if you are asking the question you already know the answer you seek but you want people to tell you it's OK but deep down you think it's not right and if your having doubts now you will feel guilty after ward!

Answer 7

Not a religious person so can't quote Bible etc... but just commonsense... don't do it... You will degrade yourself and forever be ashamed of yourself... And when you do meet somebody you can relate to, as you will in time, how will you feel... Will you feel worthy to woo her and to love.. With a clean background you are much more likely be successful in meeting somebody.... With your religious background I would have thought your church and the young ladies attending it would give you the opportunity to make friends of the opposite sex. Get more involved in the activities surrounding the church... Forget all about prostitutes and call girls. Be the nice man you are .

Answer 8

I wouldn't do it if I was you. You need to turn your thinking around and be proud that you are still a virgin not ashamed. In today's world it is quite unusual for someone to be a virgin at 22 and I think its great. You should honour your body and wait for someone you care about to share it with not someone who just wants a few quid! There are too many young people having sex now and mostly because of peer pressure - don't fall into that trap.

Stay proud and don't go to a prostitute, it would be such a waste!

Answer 9

Wow man!! Sounds like everybodys telling you not to do it, but not giving you some Biblical references. (Hey, if everybodys telling you not to do it...there must be a reason!!)

Here are some....but I'm sure there are plenty more!! Try looking into it yourself some...

1 Corinthians 6:15

1 Corinthians 6:9

1 Corinthians 6:13

1 Corinthians 6:18

1 Corinthians 10:8

1 Corinthians 5:9

Ephesians 5:3

1 Thessalonians 4:3

Proverbs 5 :3-10

As you can see, most of what I have is from Corinthians cause I'd need to look into it more, but if you'd like me to find you more I'm sure I could!!! Just let me know.

Answer 10

you won't be in a position to 'accidently' sleep with a prostitute. If no one in this talk board buys that tale.....your spouse will incredibly under no circumstances purchase it. So, cut back that crap and be very undemanding and regrettable approximately this episode with your spouse. you have committed a extreme crime. settle for it. And now you prefer a good determine (your father) to recommend it and companion on your deed. you're taking the area from undesirable to worse. a million) Ask your father to maintain quiet approximately it till finally such time which you would be able to variety it out with your spouse. 2) look forward to a sturdy possibility in the subsequent 2-4 days once you could talk it with your spouse. 3) Be arranged for a volcano of hatred erupt on you. Be arranged and be remorseful. you have executed a foul deed. 4) supply her time to digest and settle for it. it incredibly is going to take time....possibly 10 days to a million month. Thereafter you will ought to be arranged to take heed to approximately it for next 2-3 years often times. supply her a lot of actual love. They operative observe it incredibly is 'actual'. and you will come out of it with minor scars. Cheers. each and all of the perfect.