Ok.. im 20 and I have a little boy (16 months) Ive been going out with this guy for a year and a bit now, and he trapped me! He purposly got me pregnant so when he goes away I wont cheat on him.. Im scared and I dont know what to do.. first off, I dont know how the hell Im going to tell my parents thats Im pregnant again.. and I dont know how Im going to go through this pregnancy alone.. Please help, any advice (please be nice) would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks:)
2007-08-21 16:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ok.. well a few weeks ago, I noticed my pills were missing from where I usually put them.. 2 days later I found them. So I tried to be cautious and use a condom but he poked holes in them..
2007-08-22 03:06:51 · update #1
its not that I dont love my kids.. but I just feel so alone and I dont know what to do. I already know that I can do it.. well at least I think I can, Ive been doing it with my first son with no problem.. I just dont know in my situation..
I dont know if I can love the one on the way like I should because of my anger toward my boyfriend. Has anyone been in this situation? or know anyone that has?
2007-08-22 03:10:11 · update #2
Im your age with two kids..... I refuse to let anyone or anything stop me from being happy and doing what i want to do.....be strong things will sort themselves out
2007-08-21 16:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them.
And ask them for help. Pregnant or not, you don't have to stay with this person... and you don't need to. You're old enough to manage on your own... time to step up, and for the sake of your children, get out of there.
Ask your parents for help. Tell them what is going on, and hopefully they'll be willing to help. If not, go to the local Department of Family and Children's services. They'll be able to help in some way.
You aren't trapped. You're a mother, and a woman. You CAN do it without him. AND sue him for child support in the process. :)
2007-08-21 23:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonchilde 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First off where is he going????????
second that doesnt stop people from cheating...
How did he trap you???? Birth control is also your responsibility !!!!!
No easy way to yell your parents just tell them, you will need them.
Your not traped your a mother..... Girls have been traping guys for years and it never works........... You two wont stay together if you dont have trust..... trust is the basis of any relationship........... You wernt trapped you were in the bed with him !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-21 23:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey Im pregnant and if you want to cheat on him trust me there are plenty of guys that will. I dont understand how he tricked you but whatever. You might as well fess up to your parents. You will grow.
2007-08-21 23:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by southerngirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not trying to be mean but how does being preggers stop you from cheating? and why would you even think of staying with someone who by your own statement has manipulated you? Parents appreciate honesty and if you are honest then maybe they will help you through this.
2007-08-21 23:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kim H 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
ok ok let met get this straight. he PURPOSEFULLY got you preg? ... so what your saying is, the sex wasnt consentual?
if so... pull the rape card and get that guy a restraining order.
or get one anyway, he's a control freak and they are dangerous to be around trust me. after 2 years in a manipulative relationship and getting out of it, i'm so much happier now! (plus, i am married to the love of my life now that helps too haha)
good luck-- just, get this guy out of your life NOW while you can.
turn to your family for SUPPORT, explain the situation and well, take it from there.
2007-08-21 23:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by carcar 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost, break up with him! Otherwise, he will just think that his disgusting tactic is effective. Then raise YOUR baby on YOUR terms. That doesn't mean you have to go it alone. Don't be afraid to ask for help from your family, friends, church, whatever.
<3 Kelsey
2007-08-21 23:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what an asshole! well it sounds like ur man has jealousy problems like mine...im 40 weeks pregnant and im not with the babies father u dont have to be with him if your not happy and if you are not ready to have a baby there are options its your body not his and if ur ot ready you should do what makes you happy
2007-08-21 23:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you weren't trapped you willingly laid down with this so called man with no protection. you are an adult capable of making adult decisions tell your parents get prenatal care and leave the loser
2007-08-21 23:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You must have at least been in the room when he got you pregnant.
2007-08-21 23:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by Questing 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋