there is a million ways of not having enemies and it starts by your personality and how you interact with people. Hear are some tips on how to improve yourself in order to accomplish a positive work environment. Try reading this book that i posted in the source its great.
1. Become interested in other people. People always want to talk about themselves and in reality don't want hear to what you have to say. Just become a good listener and act like you want to know about them and encourage them to talk about themselves.
2. Smile to who ever you see so they don't think you are looking at them the wrong way and then try to make a fuss about you looking at them.
3. Try to remember peoples names. A person name is always the most important word in there dictionary.
4. Show respect for other peoples opinions. Never tell them they are wrong even if you think you are right. Take another approach by saying something like " i thought otherwise lets find some facts"
2007-08-21 15:48:21
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answered by reAdy2makEit 1
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As long as you don't have to supervise you can do OK. Once you promote your best friend won't want you telling them what to do and people who have been there longer than you will let you know how the cow ate the cabbage. Best to forgettaboutit and just do your job. But don't give up on the supervision because if you do the guy upstairs will replace you. Such is life! And I was such a nice person for so long. Then I had to promote and become the perfect A$$ .
2007-08-21 16:58:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't get involved with anyone/date anyone. Stay out of the way, and don't try to be every ones friend. Let the people come to you, and if they seem like real people, talk to them. Otherwise keep to yourself. Don't tell people what to do, whether you know how or not, let them ask. This pisses people off, and it makes you look like a know-it-all to everyone, and no one likes that. Also don't buddy up with the boss. It will make you look like a suck up, and your other associates may not like you because of it. To put it simply, be professional, and allow people to give you ideas, and criticism. Listen to what people have to say, and make adjustments accordingly, but be yourself. Don't gossip about other associates, even if you trust that person not to say anything to them. It will get back to them eventually.
2007-08-21 15:37:03
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answered by glitterbugbp 1
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You can't! There are some people who just will not like it. The best thing for you to do is to just to treat every individually- ex: if Jim is not a morning person this speak to him in the afternoon after he has warmed up. Accept everyone for who they are. Try to understand their hang-ups even if you dont agree.
2007-08-21 15:32:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't be a backstabber and a gossip machine....but most of all do your job well and be a team player by helping others out if and when they need it.
Oh and don't sleep with your boss or any other co-worker if indeed this needs to be said at all.
2007-08-28 12:13:02
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answered by Greenie 4
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Don't talk to anyone. They will just make up stories about you but you wont have enemies.
2007-08-21 15:39:21
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answered by AintItFunny 2
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enemies are creation of dislike, abuse,misunderstanding,misbehaving etc.,
you cannot avoid completely but can minimize it by your person powers like cooperative nature,soft reply,simple and sweet language etc
2007-08-28 21:22:10
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answered by DAMODARLAL; G 1
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Quit talking about and showing off your switchblade collection. Not everybody shares your enthusiasm.
2007-08-21 15:35:55
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answered by Anonymous
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be unbiased
avoid watercooler gossip
dont tell your entire life story to everyone
be friendly
don't cop an attitude
don't get all cocky and think you know everything
don't start ordering people around because you think you can
and don't get drunk at any office party or function
2007-08-21 15:33:59
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answered by Scooby 4
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You go to work, do your job, don't mix in with the gossips, and there you go!Smile and say Hello and smile when you say, good day.....bettyk
2007-08-29 04:07:54
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answered by elisayn 5
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