My girlfriend's pregnant and I'm very much in love with my girlfriend. We are both 24. She means the whole world to me. I was planning to marry her when I hit 28, and start a family at 30. I would never give her up for anything. We've been dating since we were 16. I love her more than anything.
2007-08-21 15:08:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Tell her what you just told us. And if you decide to marry, let her know that you love her and your not marrying her just because shes pregnant.
2007-08-21 15:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Utena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about it. Don't just propose now because she is pregnant or she may not feel like you mean it.
Tell her your long term plan and that you were thinking of the future before this. Nothing says you have to get married right away, but the decision is for both of you to make.
Good luck!
2007-08-21 22:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't HAVE to marry now just because the two of you are pregnant. Presumably you are already living together so you have the choice of continuing to live together and marry later. On the other hand, why wait? If it was coming anyhow, now is just as good as later.
2007-08-22 00:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then have a very quick and intimate wedding. since you already know that she is the one. your just going to start a family a little early thats all. my co-worker has been with her man for 6years. she is 21 and she found out she was pregnant and her and her bf just planned a really nice simple wedding in a month. whatever works for you. as long as both of you are happy and are in love with eachother is all that matters.
2007-08-21 22:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would marry her because it might make her feel better and help you 2. But i would forsure stick with her till the end. and you seem and say you deeply love her. but I would never go for abortion! and theres always adoption if you are not ready to have a family. And dont worry if she gets mean durring her pregnancy, she wont always be that way till after the baby!
2007-08-21 22:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by sydneyliciouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes no question about it you need to get married...too bad it didnt come marriage then baby....but anyways this is reality. So i would say the FIRST thing that needs to be done is make sure that your wife and baby will have stability. Good home, insurance, and allowance. Babies cost alot of money! I pray that your marriage will be blessed! :)
2007-08-21 22:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on marrying her anyway, just do it now. It won't be something you will regret. You are gonna love that baby and apparently it was all meant to be.
2007-08-21 22:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jen2U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married the time is now the family is here
2007-08-21 22:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You marry her NOW, well before the baby comes.
2007-08-22 10:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had it all figured out. To paraphrase John Lennon "Life is what happens while we are busy making other plans".
Step up and see if she will have you. Sounds like she could really use your support.
2007-08-21 22:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by KenlKoff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋