how 2 prepare 4 future relationships so it dont hurt so much,an how long b 4 u start 2 enjoy it
2007-08-21 12:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by tasty 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i dont mean the eart gettin hurt lol
2007-08-21 13:05:13 · update #1
i mean pysicaly
2007-08-22 03:01:16 · update #2
Ty,
You'll find that one great guy. And, he'll be very lucky to have you.
I'm not sure if I understand, but do you mean emotionally so it won't hurt to much?
Take your time. Be selective. You don't need to rush into any relationship or anything like that if you feel you're not ready. Don't worry - you have all the time in the world.
And, usually, in most cases, you find that one when you least expect it.
Physically? Take it slow. You need to go so fast. You lots of lube. Then after the first time, it feels awesome!
2007-08-22 02:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First things first...
USE PROTECTION.
It is better NOT to be intimate with someone that you don't know very well, but if you are DO NOT say 'next time.' Use protection each and every time.
As for relationships...
Choosing a mate that is suitable for you is a learned art. This is the same whether you are straight or gay. It takes time for you to learn about yourself and the things that are most important to you. If I was to give one peice of advice on that, I would say not to hop into bed too soon. Developing REAL intimacy can be short circuted by physical intimacy that happens too quickly.
Spend time together, enjoy each other's company and discuss every subject under the sun.
Don't submit to pressure (internal or external) to find a mate. Relax. If you focus on the thought 'is this the ONE???' you are putting too much pressure on the relationship.
2007-08-21 13:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The mechanics of sex in a relationship are easy enough to figure out, so I won't comment.
The best piece of advice I ever heard was: It's okay to give your heart away, but only a little bit at a time. In other words, don't assume that because you are turned on by someone and they're pleasant that they are "the one." Time and experiences together build that bond. If you invest too much of yourself all at once, it's really easy to get hurt.
2007-08-22 04:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest with you. We all have different periods of time it takes before we start to enjoy anything. For you it may be longer than someone else and shorter than another person. It all just takes time, but enjoy yourself while you are in the moment
2007-08-21 15:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time!
One has to kiss many toads before one finds their prince!
Be honest with your self and others, take your time, get to know people, and be safe... you will be fine, getting hurt is a part of the process, its what makes it so good when you find your solemate!
Good luck!
Also focus on making friends, the rest comes in due time!
2007-08-21 13:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by bfspeck 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Im pretty young myself, i live in florida and find it pretty hard to deal with this, i go to high school and there is 1 gay person at my school who i think is brave to come out but im not sure i could, he`s more queer then me i guess you would say.
2007-08-21 13:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check out The Gay Youth Corner at: http://www.thegyc.com/
2007-08-21 12:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by inactive account 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I second his request on advice.
2007-08-21 12:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋