is this better or worse for a virgin, 2 of my friends lost it to virgins who they loved and now im thinking about it but in my case hes not a virgin, my friends cant help this time
2007-08-21 12:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by dangerousbitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let him kno that you are, and if hes a good guy, he will take it easy and listen to you, to make it enjoyable, not traumatic...
2007-08-21 12:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay but let the other person know you are a virgin so that they are not expecting you to perform a certain way. Be honest and that way you don't have to feel awkward because he knows you are a virgin. But if you lie and say I am not a virgin he is going to expect you to do things and if you don't know how he is going to know you lied. It is better in some situations but for others its not because the person who is more experienced fails to see the beauty in losing your virginity all they see is another piece of ***.
2007-08-21 12:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was a virgin and I had sex with an experienced man, it was the worst thing that ever happened to me. you think that having sex for the first time is going to change you somehow, but it just was god awful for me. I didn't enjoy sex at all with my first or second sexual partner. However when I dating this other fellow for 3 years in the beginning of our relationship we had awesome sex. and I felt very satisfied sexual from this man. but then I realized sex isn't everything and well we broke up. the best advice i can give you is experiment and use protection, there is no right or wrong way to ''do it'' you just have to find out what turns you on. be safe.
2007-08-21 12:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how experienced he is he may have done it before with people who have experience too. And may have never done it with a virgin. You have to be patient and take your time with a virgin. So maybe he has experience.....It may still be a bad experience for you......Just make sure you voice your opinion if something isn't right or doesn't feel good let him know so he can do it different.+
2007-08-21 12:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by RCMII 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends how you feel about the guy. Before you do anything, make sure that is what you really want for yourself. Don't do just because your friends did. If you really like this guy and feel you are ready to lose your virginity then I don't think it matters if he is a virgin or not. Please, also make sure you use contraception, don't rely on him to provide it. Always make sure you have contraception. And only do this if deep down inside that is what you really want. He will be a really good bloke if he is willing to wait. If he is not willing to wait, then ditch him. He doesn't care for you. Don't give yourself to just anyone. Make sure you care for him and he cares for you.
2007-08-21 12:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by DONNA MIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy or a man who has had sex before doesn't quality as "experienced." An experienced male is one who has been taught by a woman what she likes. Tha's why sex should be with two mature people. Sex is about quantity for men and quality for women. Good luck!
2007-08-21 12:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay virgin. I wished that I waited until I got married. I lost mine when I was 16 years old. It was the worst I've ever had. I've never forgotten it.
2007-08-21 12:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bird Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry too much. I didnt loose mine to a virgin, just make sure he knows ur a virgin and it might hurt you. That way he is nice and it wont hurt as much...
2007-08-21 12:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by DaniRae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter if the guy is experienced or not....just as long as he respects you and you care for him......it should be special, you first time, so dont sell yourself short.....
2007-08-21 12:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your ages, nobody is experienced.
2007-08-21 12:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋