I don't have a boyfriend and all the guys that have told me they liked me ( only 2 this year) are my friends...and not very good looking. I'm a little excitable,eccentric,loud,and squeaky but i'm not mean,fat or ugly...is the craziness really why they don't like me? should i tone it down? are guys that turned off by girls like me?
2007-08-21 08:43:12 · 6 answers · asked by darkangelic174 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I don't go for loud and obnoxious girls... They're annoying. Here's an outline of what I do go for:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, doesn’t use drugs, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-08-21 08:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've found having a lot of guy friends that they don't like a "loud squeaky" girl... but on the other hand some guy out that will love you just the way you are... don't worry about impressing the masses, the right one will be impressed, screw the rest.
2007-08-21 15:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a pretty positive picture you paint of yourself. Except for the "squeaky" part. Man, even I dislike a girl who considers themselves "squeaky". I mean, do you have to "squeak"? What's up with the "squeaking"?
Don't change yourself to be with a man. That's "Relationship 101" (with a prerequisite of "Girl, Know Thyself! 101"). If you like being squeaky, then you just continue to squeak away. There are far too many guys in the world for you to ever believe that you'll never find one who loves your squeaking just as much as you love to do it. Apparently, you found 2 in this year who don't mind it so much. Unfortunate for YOU, you don't like them because they're "not very good looking"--maybe we should enroll you in "Girl, Good Looks Doesn't Mean Good Boyfriend 101", too.
2007-08-21 15:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, 'eff that.... don't change who you are just for some guy (or some guys...)
you will end up more unhappy if you try and cover up who you really are.
you keep being you and a guy will come around who appreciates just that.... and THAT will make you truly happy.
2007-08-21 15:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Catz Ladee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait someone will come along eventually. DONT change who you are for any guy trust me ive done it before and i really regret it
2007-08-21 15:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah all gurls need to act there age not there shoe size...
2007-08-21 15:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by dzzznutzzz_08 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋