Ok, so I've been dating this girl for a while now. Sex is good no compliants, only thing is I wish when getting oral and stuff like that should we pay more atteention to the twins if you know what I mean. Aside from that thigns are great, we've been together for a while and done most of what there is to do so I wouldn't mind spicing things up. My question is would you be offended if a guy you were dating got a video on oral sex techniques and you two watched it together? Would you enjoy trying somethign new and the experience or woudl you be offended and think he didn't think you were good at it?
2007-08-21 08:09:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did that with my GF and her skills greatly improved. People generally wish to give their partner the greatest pleasure possible and if you're offering her help in doing so, most women I know are appreciative.
BTW, keep the twins groomed if you want her down there.
2007-08-21 08:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chris O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends how long you've been dating, and what type of person she is. If some guy whipped out a video on oral sex and we'd only been dating a month or two, then I'd probably get up, walk out, and never come back.
However, if you have been dating her for a while, it would probably be best if you just talked to her about the issue, rather than giving her a video tutorial. Or, you could indicate with your movements, etc. during oral sex that you'd like her to pay more attention to "the twins".
Another thing is this: for god's sakes, ensure that you are shaved and CLEAN if you want her to pay more attention to the twins. After all, this area can be a turnoff to some women without it being all hairy and smelly to boot.
2007-08-21 15:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to get involved by doing a complete shave. Also get a good Adult video. These days most of the male stars have shaved and a lot of attention is given to the twins both with hands and orally
2007-08-21 15:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Spider 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to her about it. I know this conversation can be awkward but the benefits in the end far outweigh any discomfort. Plus it will bring you much closer together. I would start the conversation like "I really like it when you do this but can you do this as well". Make it positive. Tell her what you like and what you want to try and in turn encourage her to do the same. Good luck
2007-08-21 15:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by kandisue76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing your girlfirend that would be hard to say. I personal don't think I would like my guy doing this. If there is something else you want her to do. I would just shave the twins and tell her to look what you did for her. And they would like to feel her soft lips there. That would do it for me more than showing me a video.
Showing her the video might have a negative effect on her she may think you must hate what she is doing and stop doing anything to you.
2007-08-21 15:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your girl would be offended. I'm not sure what type of a girl she is, though. Why don't you just watch it yourself, and then when you're at it, tell her how to do it, and moan when you really like how she does it.
Or you can just shove her head down there, since she'll think it's an aggressive foreplay.
Or perhaps, you need to clean out your member or groom it up. Maybe that's why she doesn't give you enough oral.
Either way, good luck! =)
2007-08-21 15:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be a little offended by the tape. I would honestly be WAY more into it if the guy just told me what to do on the spot. Take her hand and put it where you want it...or tell her what to do. You can talk...you don't have a mouth full. ; ) When she does something that you like...let her know how good it feels and she'll be wanting to please you more! Good luck!
2007-08-21 15:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her first.
If you moan and act as if everything is ok, she will think you like it and continue doing it.
Don't insult her by getting an oral technique video BEFORE you even give her a hint she may be doing it wrong.
2007-08-21 15:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you addressed the issue with her, that you'd like her to pay more attention to your "twins"? If not, then you've no reason to complain...COMMUNICATION is the key.
If you've asked her to, or told her you'd like that, and she's ignored your request, then it may be she doesn't dig 'em. It's okay not to like something sexual...
Re: the "how to" video, I wouldn't have an issue with it. Although I've been participating in sexual activities for many years, there's always something new we can learn or be reminded of. If there's something my partner would like me to try, or do differently, I hope he'd let me know. âº
2007-08-21 15:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get the kids out of the room! Geeze! But don't show any videos, I think that is kind of nervy. Communication is the key here!
2007-08-21 15:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by sequins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋