How do I stop feeling bad about it?
2007-08-21 05:38:26 · 15 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Understand that insights are a sign of evolving consciousness,and feeling guilty about past ignorances (assuming they can be so classified) is as pointless as feeling remorse for having soiled your diapers when you were a baby. You were at a different developmental stage and responded accordingly.
2007-08-21 05:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason for you to have felt bad in the first place. I don't understand why other women have such spite and hatred for porn. I figure it's an insecurity thing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not exactly pleased with my own body, but I can appreciate a knockout and point them out to my boyfriend. I'm not bi, I'm not a lesbian, I'm realistic. Chances are pretty good that your boyfriend / fiancee / husband watched porn, went to strip clubs and checked out other women before you, so why should he stop after you? He comes home to you, he doesn't cheat on you, he's not asking you to be more like another woman - so what's the big deal? When you ask him to stop it is embarrassing to him to have say to his friends, "Sorry man, my old lady will get pissed." - that's like, "Hey guys, my mom says I can't play with you anymore." And if they do partake in any "forbidden" actions, they have to hide it from you or get ready for a fight. Not to mention, it makes you look extremely insecure and needy. Just let it go.
2007-08-21 06:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by are ya kidding me? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER EVERYONE HAS WATCHED PORN. I COULD BE WRONG BUT I USED TO WANT TO BE A PORN STAR JUST BECAUSE OF THE PAY. YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT WATCHING IT IN THE PAST ITS VERY INTERESTING TO WATCH AT TIMES BUT YOU DO FEEL BAD ABOUT IT AT THE END OF THE DAY BUT LIKE I SAID THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND DONT LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU WATCHED IT IN THE PAST
2007-08-21 05:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Diane L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is porn wrong. It is just people having sex, have sex all the time, only western culture makes sex into this horrible thing that sould feel guilty.
If you don't want to watch porn don't. But you don't need to feel guilty about watching it in the past.
2007-08-21 05:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't feel bad about it. if it's something you like then so be it. i let my husband watch porn if he wants and i even watch with him sometimes. i guess it just depends on the girl. some people think its wrong for religious reasons or they're just insecure about themselves. i say its just entertainment like everything else just that its taboo. dont let other peoples opinions get to you.
2007-08-21 05:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple fact....Men watch porn....she shouldnt have gotten mad at you.....or made you feel bad about it.....she is insecure and is taking it out on you.....Ive learned that its just apart of life.....dump her...and find someone who is secure within themselves and doesnt care about porn....it sounds like she needs to grow up....
2007-08-21 05:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its porn, everyone loves porn . . . porn=very good
watch alot of it and the bad feeling will go.
2007-08-21 05:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't,really. Think about it. Now that you know how awful it is, why want to still watch it? It's degrading to both males and females, and studies show it makes men who watch it more aggressive towards women.
2007-08-21 05:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lyssa 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is a loser. Porno is fine and good for you.What ever she told you don't pay attention.You're the judge in your life.Is your life, not a bimbo-moral with Sunday-talk-ideas life.Think about it and get rid of her at once.
2007-08-21 05:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She just mad cuz you mite catch her in a porn movie lol.
2007-08-21 05:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋