Why? I don't know. I want you thoughts on why whys love porn. Is it because of the quick freaky hook up? or a different women every time? please let us know. Thanks
2007-08-21 05:37:29 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not much into it myself, but guys are going to watch and read porn and so I don't object. However, there is porn and there is porn. Some porn is extremely crude and I have to wonder about that. Also, if it involves torture, homosexual porn, or kiddie porn with girls under 13, even if the boys are young, then I'm going to be turned off by the guy. I'm not going to attempt to change him--that hopeless; I'm just not going to have anything more to do with him. If he was a husband, I'd divorce him.
2007-08-21 06:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a woman and I like to watch porns. Everybody (male or female) is going to fantasize and with porns, they just allow you to do so, without you actually acting out in real life with those fantasys. It's just a movie. I have a boyfriend and we have a very healthy sexual relationship. Occasionally, we will watch porn together, but half the time, we can't even get through the opening credits before we are all over each other. Personally, I don't mind that he watches porns. Like I said above, at least he's not acting out on those urges in real life! He is just being a healthy, heterosexual male. Just don't let porns take over your life - that's when it may become a problem for you and your personal relationships.
2007-08-21 05:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ready to Go Home! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman feels differently on this one. Some women hate porn and almost think of it as a form of chating. Some women don't mind and others (like myself) will watch it with our man. Sex can be so much better for both sides after watching a good porn. Remember: watching porn is 100000% better than cheating. I don't know why women hate porn I love it and would feel odd if I was with a man who didn't like it.
2007-08-21 05:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by -Swatty- 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in theory I have no problem with it. It's just a natural urge that guys have, it doesn't reflect on how they feel about the women they love, it's just a release, that's all.
but in practice, if a guy I was with, looked at porn daily - I'd feel bad about it. Not for any logical reasons, I just would. It's better to have an understanding that guys do this, and it's ok if he "occasionally" looks at porn - but beyond that, if it's more than a very infrequent thing, I don't want to know.
2007-08-21 05:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If watching porn doesn't take away from anything else, like family friends etc.. Then all is well. There is nothing wrong with using your eyes to fulfil any freaky urges you may have.
2007-08-21 05:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by mama_ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like porn because they are visual creatures, they like to look at naked women, they like to look at women having sex...with porn they can do that in the privacy of their own home, and see some of their own sexual fantasies played out on the screen (esp if they are curious or into things their partner is not).
I have no issue with it (unless it crosses into an unhealthy addiction). I've got a little porn collection of my own so I can't fuss. Besides, if I'm not "in the mood" and he is, popping in a flick will usually get me there pretty quickly. ☺
2007-08-21 05:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the feeling of not knowing the actors and actresses who do it, so you don't necessary get emotionally attached, it's only to get a quick thrill and move on to the next. i don't think there is nothing wrong with porn in some respects but it's when porn goes to another level i think it gets wrong. Porn is there to excite and surprise
2007-08-21 05:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Charl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with it, it's perfectly natural and to pretend that every guy doesn't do it is just lying to yourself. EVERY guy does it, either with you, or behind your back. I like to look at porn with my husband. It's a big turn on for us, and he's always ready for me afterwards! Now if he was obsessive about it, or if he needed porn to get aroused then I would worry. Anything in excess is not good.
2007-08-21 05:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is part of life.....men watch porn for the same reason women shop til they drop.....for the satisfaction.....I can care less if a man watches porn as long as he gives it to me all the time.....
2007-08-21 05:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like-whatever...men are horny and visual. You think about sex every what, seven seconds? If your girl is good enough, you would be fantasizing about her and the real thing and not some stupid fake crap. Or maybe you're not hot enough to get a hot chick that looks like a porn star.
2007-08-21 05:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lee B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋