When a man hits a woman is he being abusive or trying to end the argument?

Question

Women use words as their powerful weapon. A man responds with his weapon. He usually tries everything else to end the verbal aggression.
Come on ladies admit you like to degrade a man when he doesn't show you attention. Just tell him you want attention.
Is that the difference in an abused woman and a healthy relationship?

Answer 1

He is being abusive!!
There are no two ways about this... unless a woman is threatening a man's life and has a weapon and he has NO CHOICE, he should never hit a woman. And on the other hand, I also think a woman should never hit a man; unless it's self-defense.
Abuse of ANY kind is just plain wrong.
I will not admit that I like to degrade a man when he doesn't show attention. I'm not that damn needy. If I want attention, then I'll show it first and hope for the best. If I don't get attention, then I most assuredly will live without it. As do most strong women who don't do things only for attention.
Is WHAT "the difference in an abused woman and a healthy relationship"? Make yourself clear on this and I'll be more than happy to answer your 2nd question now that I've answered the first..... if you really care to know. :)

Have a good day!

Answer 2

Women use words as their powerful weapon. {anyone does some times hon}

A man responds with his weapon. {like what? If you're implying it's his fist, he needs serious help (or you do)}

He usually tries everything else to end the verbal aggression. {really, all men or are you looking for some sort of alibi?}

Come on ladies admit you like to degrade a man when he doesn't show you attention. {LOL, so sad that you're implying that ALL women are just out to degrade a man for attention? ROFLMAO!!}

Just tell him you want attention. {Ok, I want attention *^_^*}

Is that the difference in an abused woman and a healthy relationship? {No, as this really did'nt make a whole lot of sense, sorry hon}

Answer 3

What's your definition of "verbal aggression", "degrade" and attention?? These words may mean different things to different people.

A man hitting a woman is a bully,coward and a loser..

There are ways to end an argument without hitting someone, especially a woman.

If men respond with weapons, then we would see more men hitting each other at work during disagreements, or anyplace they feel like they are being faced with "verbal aggression"... not at home with a mate.

If what you are trying to say was true, there would be random acts of violence between women and men...everyplace....


Males who think that women are less than them, and/or child like are the type of men who would not see a problem with being abusive...

Yes, there is a difference between an abused woman and a healthy relationship...

In a healthy relationship, both people are heard, respected, and treated like equal partners...

No person male or female will think its okay to degrade someone...

A real woman can ask for what she wants, or leave the relationship and find what she needs someplace else...

A real man can control himself,and knows he is the only one who is responsible for his action...

If he cant take whats being said to him, then he needs to walk away, some help or get out of the relationship...

Answer 4

Lets see , degrade someone as opposed to hit someone ? I see women being called b**** every day now , even on tv . I don't see them hitting anyone for it . In fact women have become door mats and will tolerate being called any sort of dog now days . It's in our music and our homes that it's ok to call a woman what ever you men wish to . However, how often do you see women calling men names and getting away with it ? Never ! It's men that use words as their powerful weapon . Now you just can't hurt enough with your words so are also using your fists , and you are trying to compare the two types of abuse . There is no comparison . You are abusive period .
A man's weapon is his mind . You haven't figured out how to use yours yet , so you should not be in any type of relationship . Especially not one where there is a possibility that you might breed . We have enough d******ss people on the planet already .

Answer 5

what? no, i wouldn't hit you down the pub if you where giving me agro, why should i do the same to my lovley lady? why, lol we don't always get on entirely but thats a good thing, if we had a physical fight then we wouldn't solve anything now would we? sometimes we don't show each other enough attention, but at the end of it i know we will soon if we can't/won't now. so no i don't think that physical abuse is ever right, as a soldier either, because to abuse soemone is wrong, to torture and do things to someone you shouldn't is wrong, granted a miltary situation is different to one on civy street, but no its never right

and as for hitting women, don't you see how that's wrong? i can understand doing just enough to stop a woman from a violent attack on yourself by restraining her, but thats it. nothing more. so no this is not right and towards someone your ment to love, can you think you can get away with that and love someone?

Answer 6

If a man loves God he will know what his wife needs and discern everything about her. She like wise him. God teaches with his spirit he leaves nothing to chance. Violence comes from the flesh. James chapter 1. Just tell him you want attention? The tongue James chapter 3.

God calls us to Holiness. 1 Thessalonians 4:1-7. Yes the wife is to submit to her husband yet the husband is to submit to his wife. In marriage no one has control over their body, the man is the head of the household yet he is to love his wife just like the Lord loves the church. If he harms her he is harming himself. Self afflicted wounds are no fun. God gives us a gift of the Holy spirit which directs us,we hinder the spirit when we quarrel and fight. What is a weapon? Are you carnal? A woman to God is most precious to him. Why because he gave her the gift of birth she carries the seed. Isaiah 54. No weapon formed against you shall proper and every tongue that raise up against you the Lord shall condem. Women in the world looks on the outside of a man.God knows the men's hearts. You are cruel.

Answer 7

So a man who hits isn't responsible for his actions?

I never, ever degrade my man when I want attention. I simply.... capture his attention. I love him, I would never think of degrading him for any reason. He's earned my respect by being an awesome man. Likewise he'd never strike me for any reason. When we disagree, we end up joking and teasing each other.

And any man who did hit me would only see me again on the witness stand for his trial.

It doesn't sound like you're very familiar with healthy relationships. Possibly you could benefit from counseling.

Answer 8

If any one is being degraded by someone else's words, then they need to pack up and leave. I do not degrade my husband for lack of attention. If you are being treated this way, then you need a new women. No abuse is acceptable: physical, mental, or verbal.

Answer 9

If a man hits me he is on his way to jail. Attention or lack of it has nothing to do with that. The difference in an abused woman (or man) and a healthy relationship is the tolerance for violence. I have zero tolerance, and that door swings both ways.

Answer 10

That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard! First of all, men who hit women do not usually try everything else first to 'end the verbal aggression.' I've been around many abusive men, and in most cases, they're just out for control & intimidation.

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