I have this co-worker who is always making snide remarks about my relationship,and he has NO room to talk at all.
2007-08-21 04:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
He came out and said one day."I'm tired of these foreigners taking all our women."
2007-08-21 04:58:09 · update #1
He's constantly saying this.I used to ignore him but he makes me so angry,I tell him off.Like I said,he has no room to talk because he's in a mixed relationship himself.
2007-08-21 05:12:58 · update #2
Well see what happens when you put up with crap? They're probably just racist. So why don't you give him your two cents and defend yourself? Tell your boss that he is harrassing you! Don't put up with it! America is the land of the free and we are free to marry or do anyone we want! Foreigners are the yummiest in bed!
2007-08-21 09:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by greysfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't their business to get involved in your love life.My son is an American and he has yet to date an American girl. He only goes out with Chinese,Korean or Japanese girls.
They are all very sweet and polite.He was married to a Euopean girl but she turned out to be a bad seed.
My husband and I have no problem with it as long as he is happy.
I just wanted to add that all of his girlfriends are non -American green card holders or on student visa's.
It isn't always easy to be in a relationship with someone from another country. Their values can be different and feeling get hurt over silly things at times.
I was 19 and my husband 26 when we met. My mom and dad went crazy because he was from communist Hungary. They got to know him and soon loved him too. Good Luck.
2007-08-21 12:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there may have some interest going on between you guys in the past. You should listen to his remarks and see him for who he really is. Stay on the high road don't let the thirst for attention and drama interfere with the good things in life.
2007-08-21 19:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by gc10k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would report him to hr as his remarks could be deemed harrassment. there are currenlty 65 mil kids in the us with bilingual non american born parent. it has always been this way... for stats start at www.usa.gov
and the us census they keep data on all that there are 25 mil mixed race kids in the usa as well. that is almost as many people in cnd or other nations alone.
2007-08-21 12:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by CCC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people automatically assume if you're in a relationship with someone who is non-American, that your partner is going to take advantage of you and marry you, just so they can get a green card.
What a twisted view. It shows just how much these people don't care for anybody who is non-American.
2007-08-21 12:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lily Iris 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him or report him. I have friends and family who have married non-americans (who came here legally btw) and to the best of my knowledge no one gives them any grief. These are the same types of people who complain if you marry outside your own race ( I did, marry outside my own race that is).
2007-08-21 12:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sticks and stones….
But seriously, it’s not with just immigrants, it’s all races in general!
@_@ People look at me weird when I date other races, or maybe they look at me weird because I’ve never dated my own race. Personally I don’t look at dating by race but by personality.
If he ever says anything directly harsh towards you, find a way to record it and get him fired—harassment is harassment and it is not right!
2007-08-21 12:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by aangita 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Didn't your parents tell you to ignore the ramblings of insane bigots?
2007-08-21 12:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by WEASEL LIBERALS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a ethnocentric racist. He probalbly has a small woo hoo too.
2007-08-21 12:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore him!
2007-08-21 12:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋