how can i become good to myself?in performing such things to be good?

Answer 1

well the good of your goodness, could be gotten by goods or the good or mankind, or just a good belly laugh. I once considered goodness, but the answers that came to me were not good enough to convince of their inherent goodness. So for the good of the community I became a goodly man, yet strange in a good way.
What was it you were asking.

Answer 2

Through small things, if these end up doing much for others, then you know you have done well. You can become good to yourself by knowing that your act have transformed things or has helped others in a great deal more than what you expected.

You can also do things you have never done or avoided like:
1) going to Church and relearning to communicate with God;
2) being a respectable and trustworthy neighbor and family member;
3) being optimistic - by being optimistic, you can learn to forgive yourself that not all things can be controlled..you can love yourself more and thus be good to yourself;
4) appreciate things that are good in yourself - usually what we are looking for are within ourselves;
5) forgive others easily - this way, you can also forgive yourself easily and as an added bonus, your health will improve too by lower high blood pressure and less wrinkles in the face.. right? ;-D

Answer 3

It is better to put your heart in everything you do. No matter how hard a task is, as long as you have the will and dedication to do it, your performance will be highly acceptable. You don't need to become "good" in the things you want to do. Simply by enjoying the things you want to do, you will be the best.

Answer 4

One way to feel good about yourself is by doing things for others! Volunteer at a local hospital/nursing home. helping sick people always makes me feel good. Maybe helping out at your local dog pound? Animals need love and affection too. And always be proud of who you are. Write down the things you like & dislike about yourself. Then try to change the things that you dislike about yourself. And be honest to not only yourself, but to others. You're a good person, you just need to open up more to your friends. Ask one of them to go to the gym with you. Eat healthier, exercise more. Anything that makes you happy is going to make you look good and feel good. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Here are some things you could try:
-Read chicken soup books
-Read "Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren (it will tell you about your purpose and life and raise you self esteem)
-Go to church
-Read the Bible
-Get advice from a counselor

Answer 6

The most important thing is self-confidence.
Be sure of yourself and of your talents, then in turn, you will accept how good you are.

Answer 7

Give happiness will get happiness.

Answer 8

Practice, practice, practice!