well heres the drill ive been freinds with my lady freind for about 3 months she had a boyfreind back then so i never made any moves they both split last week now before they got together she used to flirt with me and i never did anything because well simple matter i was scared too i couldent believe someone this beutifull might of wanted me so i never got the courage to ask ehr out so i think thats why she jumped in with this other guy now they split i saw her the other day she was flirting with me again.
now i know the rebound theroy and have been the rebound guy before in relationships so its ****** up and i dont want to be one ever again. but i meen asked ehr last night what was she going to go she said life goes on im looking for another fish in the big sea now.
she and myself are meeting tonight to go do something. im not sure weather she is looking for a rebound guy or looking for someone else in general ie me ?? what do i do tonight if things progress and tells me she wan
2007-08-21 04:01:42 · 4 answers · asked by GG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wants* more than a freindship or or she trys kissing me do i stop or accept it i really like and have sort of subtley told her my feelings, which i think she ahs picked up on so should i accept this and take things slow with her or just forget the whole thing and avoid her like the plauge
2007-08-21 04:03:13 · update #1
sorry for spelling i know theres a spell check im in a hurry
2007-08-21 04:03:58 · update #2
take is slowly with her and something great just might happen between you two...just listen to her and be there for her and when the timing is right kiss her but always leave her wanting more so she starts to think about you more and more
2007-08-21 04:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show or tell her your feelings (Never)....Be a challenge, show confidence, date other girls, treat her like she's just a friend, don't let her use you as an emotional tampo. Be a man and show her that she is just one of the girls, don't spend too much time with her, says what to do and when to do it, decide where you want to go, decide when to leave (before her), don't ever tolerate unacceptable behavior from her, don't be too nice, don't talk too long on phone with her (max 5 minutes), treat her like a little girl. Have a life and don't make her all that important and don't feel bad about it and let me know what happen when you do that....
2007-08-21 04:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by MC Kwek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first do NOT avoid her she sounds sweet although i dont think you should go for it just yet make it clear your feelings to her and your intentions and make it clear that you do NOT want to be her rebound so she knows that if she is expecting just that that it isnt going to work for you but let her know that you want to date her and see what she says if she says its to soon do NOT put pressure on her just say i will give it a little time and then we can try
Tiffany
2007-08-21 04:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to answer but dude...these are some of the LONGEST sentences I have ever seen! A star for that.
2007-08-21 04:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by QWERTY 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋