I am a pretty confident person. I was bullied at school but got over that with meeting good freinds at Uni. But the problem is I live far away from my friends now. I never see them. I socialsie with my family and my partners family. But my partner and I get nothing back but snide remarks. We treat eveeryone with respect and welcoming. I get really depressed because I always seem to be at the brunt end of everyones elses jokes or I get left out of nights out. it really hurts. My sisters husband continually comes between my sister and I and I hate that. im getting married soon and feel so annoyed by this i dont even want to ask my sister to be bridesmaid. Feel very down.
2007-08-21 03:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by MABBY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let them know you're not putting up with this from anyone whether they're family or not and you have no problem staying away from people like that.
2007-08-21 04:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've thoroughly trained others how to treat you; your reactions to their comments fuel the fire.
The only way out is to not play the game, or better yet, make them the butt of their own cutting remarks.
You're also taking everything way too seriously. I know; I once felt as you do now. You need to realize what sometimes seems to be deliberate is often just rude, thoughtless behavior not purposely directed towards you.
If it is, then ignore them. After all, what is their opinion really worth in the long run?
2007-08-21 04:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems the more time you spend with your family the less respect you get i dont know why it is but the best solution is to have nothing much to do with them i see my family once maybe twice a week and thats enouth i wouldnt socialise with them it just doesnt work and im no longer friends with old friends concentrate on your husband to be and forget what any one else thinks if they make you feel that way there not worth spending time with
2007-08-21 04:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by carla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has no one explained to you that you do not have to like your family?
If they cannot respect you don't bother with them especially as your wedding is the day you start a new family unit and it should be all about you two, no one else.
2007-08-21 04:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly shes purely indignant on the international! Or, possibly somebody taken care of her like that as quickly as she become youthful, and he or she purely copied them. the only way i think of which you would be waiting to alter her is to tutor her how she acts! particularly of being effective, scream, shout, be propose to her! yet,i'm undecided if it would artwork...if i do no longer purely supply her some pills and make her satisfied :)
2016-12-12 08:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Families can be so hateful. If you stand out you are likely to be physically and emotionally abused.
2007-08-21 04:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say- you can`t choose you`re family.
If i were you i would choose to spend a lot less time with them!
2007-08-21 04:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Bobby`s Hairdresser 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes im a quiet person and get ingnored a lot dont worry .
2007-08-21 03:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by jester101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋