My ex and I broke up last October and i tried to contact him wishin him happy holidays or meaningless statements a couple of times. Finally in Februaury I told him he was right about me and he called me and we talked for five min (how his life is and what i am up to) after that no contact. This month was my b-day and i got a txt msg on my old phone (now belongs to my sister) just wanted to say hi and then the next morning i miss you....i contacted him this weekend he asked me if i was in a relationship and i said yes...and he asked if it was serious and i said yea....then he said wish u the best...i asked him wat he was feeling for me and he said "I love you so much" and he asked when he can me i said in 2 weeks....and he said he would call me tommorow ...he never did...i am really upset and i feel like my mind and my heart have been played with...
2007-08-21 02:39:19 · 26 answers · asked by mariapican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen when a guy behaves like this guy is it means one thing...he wants to get back together. We don't act the way you described unless we want the girl back.
I'm not saying you should take him back, but just understand everything he does/says from here on in will be calculated to try to get you back.
2007-08-21 02:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds to me like it's a case of "want what you can't have". He wants you because he can't have you. He didn't call because he's not serious about getting back together or anything like that. You should leave it alone, you're in a serious relationship. And he IS an ex for a reason. Sounds to me like you have a lot going for you as far as relationships go anyway, you shouldn't be worrying about an ex, especially one that will probably break your heart.
2007-08-21 09:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this new relationship you're in is not quite as serious as it needs to be if you're agreeing to see your ex and wondering where it could go. Truth is, you're not being fair to the new person in your life if that's what you're doing. Maybe you need to decide what you want before you end up hurting someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt. Why are you still contacting your ex anyway if you have someone new in your life? Does this new person know about it? Highly doubtful, and very unfair. The word selfish comes to my mind right about now.
2007-08-21 09:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by baguzman_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he has lied to you before....than i think hes telling the truth.
"i miss you" and "i love you so much" are two of the toughest things for a guy to say, and if he is willing to say those things to you and not worry about you saying them back, than i think hes telling the truth and just wants another chance.
unless the relationship you are in now is super-good, I would try and take him back and see how it goes.
but remember, guys are jerks, i'll admit that I will say almost anything for sex, so if I were you, I would make sure that he knows if you get back together, that you want him to wait a few weeks before you give him some action.
2007-08-21 09:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would move on if I were you. It sounds like you are in a relationship now... I would not do anything to jeapordize that for an ex things didnt go well with the first time.. more than likely nothing has changed.
2007-08-21 09:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex and obviously you broke up for a reason. Don't forget that. You should move forward not backwards. He is probably a confused person so why mix your emotions up over somebody who didn't stick around before.
2007-08-21 09:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex for a reason...just remember that. Don't deal with him anymore and you shouldn't be too worried about it if you're in a good relationship now.
2007-08-21 09:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by acatisacomintogetcha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop contacting him: he's just playing with you. If he really loved you, he would have said something waaay before this, or actually done something to win you back. Forget all about him, and good luck!
2007-08-21 09:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but now ur going out with someone else so maybe he didn't call because he feels.. 'really upset and feel like him mind and my heart have been played with'...
2007-08-21 09:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by ChikaLatta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh ex's!! They just wanna mess around with our heads!! Why?? The bastards! Dont contact him ever again. Hes a waste of time and space.
2007-08-21 09:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by wondergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋