no one in my husbands family has one. The daughter's mother doesn't have one either. There is this man who could possibly be her father and he has one and so do his other kids is it possible he is the father?
2007-08-21 02:15:43 · 41 answers · asked by taylor t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
A simple DNA test could solve all your questions
2007-08-24 20:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
T.M.I. Your husband has 5 children from with different mother's. OK where's your point that this child might not be his.You would say this b/c you don't want to even think that it's true. So your going t say dumb half baked things b/c the thought of your husband fathering another child is mind blowing to you. I pray to GOD that when the DNA test comes back and you find out the truth you apologize to the mother of the child b/c having an cleft chin or not does not determine if your husband is this child father. You seem very ignorant in what you are saying. You need to face up to the truth that this could be your husband's baby.
2007-08-21 02:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mahogany 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is still possible he is the father. Neither of my parents have red hair or brown eyes, but I do. Does it make me the milk man's kid? No, of course not. I have uncles and grandparents with those traits. If there is a single person in your husband or the mother's family that had a cleft chin, and that includes great grandparents that are long dead and gone, then it could still be his child. If he has any doubts, he should get a dna test done.
That said, I'd be rather cautious of being in a relationship with a guy who has five children by five different women.
2007-08-21 02:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
DNA testing will be the only sure way of knowing but one needs to be aware of the effect it will have on the child and eventually the father who will be rather upset if the DNA test proves he is not the father. This could cause a rift and complications in the family unit and untold misery for all involved. If you love this man and this child then let things be so dont open up an ugly can of worms if you can avoid it. Right now your husband is the only permanent parent this little girl has dont mess things up for her.
2007-08-21 02:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hold a "big grudge" against your husband. You do not forgive and so you harbor anger inside for his past actions.
Will you take it out on this innocent child and bear that burden and guilt?
You resent his past,, and now your role in it.
"You" attracted "your" choice in a life partner, he is "your" choice. Deal with that for a moment.
Stop looking for another rock to throw at him.
Except the children, they didn't do any picking, he did.
Focus on the man and his intentions for his family and his level of wisdom and understanding, and yours too.
Kind, good men don't stray, they work hard and love their family even harder. Did you attract that type of man before your first child? A man who you "screened" for you and your childrens future needs? Have you never seen that old show The Waltons on TV? They protray what a "good man" is.
So, work on "you" and your anger. You cannot change the past. Work on "blessing" him through education. Educate your family in what is proper and they will prosper.
You can get a DNA test, tell the girl she isnt yours, act like it all your life and hate her and the Father. Or you can become the "blessing to your family" by getting the nessesary resources thru the church, adult schooling, family counseling and community resources.
Now if he is a lost cause then get him out of the picture and be the blessing for what is left in your life.
Get educated, love and bless those kids and change that heart into a heart of Gold.
God Bless
2007-08-21 02:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My oldest son has a cleft chin and my other 3 do not. Neither do my husband or I. Things are in everyones genes that dont necessarily show up in each child. If your husband has serious doubts though, he should get a dna test.
2007-08-21 03:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by kaytee3212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it miht be "hard" for you to believe it, and yes it can be genetically linked and obviously if the paternity test isn't there than THERE IS a possibility that she may not be his. But not because of the cleft but becuase who knows how many kids he has and how many people the girl's mother slept with. That should be your concern not his possible child with a cleft.
2007-08-21 02:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by jmalin04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 23:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but I have to. The thing is that just because the baby has an cleft chin dosent mean that she is not his. The thing is dose he think that she is his? If that is the case then it dosent matter/ I would butt out of this. By the way did he marrie any of his other baby mommys? Because if so I would be carefull!!!
2007-08-21 02:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is rare for both parents to be cleft chinless and have a cleft chinned child. It happens but not often. A different father is a definite possibility. Take this up w/ the mother (all though she will probably deny it). Dont go right up to your husband and tell him, it may break his heart.
2007-08-21 02:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Genetic traits come from fathers AND mothers. Paternity tests are easy to find.
ps. a cleft chin (like Michael Douglas) isn't the same as a cleft palate (birth defect)
2007-08-21 02:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by fdm215 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋