...emotional breakdown???

Question

i feel really emotional at the moment. i have so much on my mind but i cant tell anyone...whenever i do I’m portrayed as the bossy, controlling freak. i just feel betrayed, angry, worthless and just a whole lot of mix feelings.

i just want to talk to someone and for them to listen without arguing.
im jst really upset at the moment, which i know is really pathetic but i don’t know what to do. its really hard to explain without having to tell all the details.

i just want to feel good . and to move out of this place called 'home'. and have my own place but its so difficult, especially with me still being in education. it just seems that young pregnant teenagers is more of a priority to home than someone who just wants to be independent.

i afraid that i'll be stuck here for another year...i don’t think i can take it anymore. but i have no other choice.
What do i do??

Probably isn’t the best idea to talk about this on yahoo but I just don’t know what else to do.

Answer 1

Check the front of your telephone book for a Mental Health Crisis line and call. Many cities have them, and they are manned by people who are trained to listen in a non-judgemental way to ANY problems that you have that you want to talk about. This is a free service, and most are staffed 24 hours a day. They will listen, and may give you strategies on how to deal with some of the problems that you are experiencing. At the very least, just talking about the problems may make you feel better. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

I can't tell how old you are by what you're writing. If you are of college age you CAN move out of your parents home even if they are paying for your education. You do have a right to live your own life and I would think parents would be proud that you would want to be independent. It's scary but I did it and I'm 34 and just fine with my parents. If you feel locked in then you should pay for your own education (it can be done, that's what I did).
If you're a teenager, it's very stressful when another sibling gets attention and you feel like you can't talk to anyone. Do you have adults you can trust? Since high school is starting up, you could call and ask to talk to the school counselor (i'm sure they have days they are in). A pastor? You can feel free to email me if you like, I'd be more than happy to know what you're feeling if you felt comfortable with that. Best to you!
Cry when you need to, it helps. Accept that you're emotional, it's really OK. Blessings and comfort

Answer 3

Aries would be playing drinking games, making jokes, talking loud. Taurus would be flirting with some Scorpio girl, but in some kind of elegant, earthy way. wil be drinking and eating too. Gemini would be socializing, having great fun with people they just met, would know everyone's name by the end of the night. Cancer would be a bit shy at first and try to find someone they already know. However, after drinking, they'll be dancing and totally forget about how shy they are. Leo would make sure everyone's having fun, basically act like a king who's taking care of his people lol Virgo would be trying to get this hot guy/girl's phone number and totally have a plan in mind for that. Libra would be observing other people, doing whatever seems fun at the moment, laughing, having a great time with friends,dancing... Scorpios would be horny (hey its a stereotype =)) and have this earth girl/guy who's a bit of a challenge in mind and do everything to get him/her. Sagittarius would be trying to call other friends to come over, and be the energy of the party - along with other fire signs and probably end up drunk but have good stories to tell after the party. Capricorn would be with friends, be quiet but gradually open up after a few drinks with the Scorpio mentionned above, and then, maybe ... Aquarius will find something fun, original and unexpected to do. Pisces would be talking with the Cancer at first since they're both a bit shy at first - and probably end up dancing, or playing those drinking games with Aries - and end up really drunk.

Answer 4

I was on the verge of an "emotional breakdown" as you put it about 6 mos. ago. I sought counseling which helped me tremendously. There are lots of cheap options out there and lots of counselors who will accept monthly payments. I am so glad I did what I did because I am a different person now. Also, I was able to get on some anti-depressant/anti-anxiety medication which helps so much. I would strongly encourage you to seek professional help. I had situational depression meaning that the situation I was in was causing my problem. Fortunately for me, I was able to leave the situation. It sounds like you can't leave your situation, but with the help of a counselor, you might figure a way out of it or at least a way to cope with it. Good luck!

Answer 5

I'm sorry and believe it or not, I really do feel for you. I know what it's like to experience such stress and anxiety and feel like you have nothing to comfort you in your life. Since I'm not quite sure what exactly is going on, sounds like you hate your homelife and are a minor, ask your parents for permission or to take you to your primary care doctor, talk to him/her and see if there is something they can suggest to you be it counseling (which in my experience is worthless) or a mild antidepressant just to take the edge off. I'm sorry you are so young and at your breaking point. I know friends wont listen and you feel "dramatic" but your not, how you feel is never stupid, just remember that. See if you can seek medical help. Good luck to you and don't give up

Answer 6

You need to quit blaming yourself for having feelings. It is not pathetic to be upset. Are these problems with your parents?? It sounds kind of corny, butI'm sure whoever you are arguing with wants it to stop as well. Maybe you could all go to some type of counselling, it really works. You are not worthless or pathetic. Even if you have another family member to talk to maybe this will help.

Answer 7

you'd be surprised how many people go through the exact same feelings everyday. You're not alone! Email me anytime if you need 2 talk. We've all been to the point of being so tore up that we cant even spit out our feelings right. Calm Down, take a deep breath and just spill it.

Answer 8

usually people appear bossy and bitchy when they are feeling weak. get involved and do things for yourself you have a roof over your head and are getting an education look for the good things in life and respect the rules in your home and things will be easier. people who lvole you want the best for you. you are not a victim get yourself together . read walk etc. maybe get other interest life is full make new friends and treat you r family as you treat your friends and things will turn arouldn

Answer 9

I know your upset. So I want to try and help. But your question was a little fragmented. So you can Im me if you are still online BTW congrats on getting an aducation. I'm a single mom who is 30 and still don't know 3what I want to be when I grow up. LOL

Answer 10

Do you expect it will be easier when you are on your own?

You are focusing on your own expectations.

And that is causing you frustration.

They would only think of you as a ' bossy, controlling freak' if you are trying to tell them how you want to be treated.

Are you doing anything to help them?
If you want someone to listen to you do you listen to them?

Here is a suggestion. Try doing more that your share of chores. Try showing a little more sympathy for that 'pregnant teenager'.

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