I have no idea. Do you?
He is quite good-looking but is rather judgemental. I'm worried about how to approach him. He's not like other guys.
2007-08-21 01:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify. He is a nice guy who's very helpful of his friends, but judges others who aren't as intelligent as he is. (He's a bit of a prodigy, academic-wise).
2007-08-21 01:59:03 · update #1
why would want to talk to him.. what if he pass judgement on you.. will u be able to deal with it...
2007-08-21 01:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by antoinio i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Aside from that. he would know you are interested, so the best thing to do is ignore him. He thinks hes so good he will wonder why you have gone cold and will make more of an effort. Just to see 'if he can';. He may be secretly shy...Just be aware, if he does start acknowledging you, its probably to see if you go back to doey eyes. You will end up getting hurt in the near future. Sounds like he has issues...i'd give him civil treatment only.
2007-08-21 01:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's easier for you write to him - either a note or email.
just spell it out in plain words - that you like him and are interested. ask him if he's open to the idea.
I always try to be frank, straightforward and honest in relationships and as a guy i know i would greatly appreciate the honest simple truth spelled out - and even if he rejects your offer - you will know the answer - if you don't try - you won't know. you could start by saying that you are writting because of the awkwardness and hope he won't take it the wrong way, but be prepared that the possibility exists that he may reject you.
all the best
2007-08-21 01:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is intimidating don't get talking to him at all hun, he will only put you down in arguments and disagreements.
Trust me he will just make you feel like rubbish hun if he talks down to you and it wouldn't be worth it.
Just keep admiring his good looks from a distance and leave it at that, someone better will be round the corner for ya x
Good luck babes x
2007-08-21 01:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he is judgemental, he will make your life miserable. Either he will be rude to you for even trying to talk with him or if you convince him to go out with you, he will find fault with everything you do. I know from experience on this one. I had a boyfriend like this in college. You are right. He is not like other guys. Keep that in mind and leave him to himself.
2007-08-21 01:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Julie H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you found Mr. Badboy. If you really want a taste of forbidden fruit, you have to work up the nerve to tell him what you think. It's doubtful he'll turn you down.
2007-08-21 01:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judgemental and snobbish are a bad combination. thats the guy that wants things his way and tries to make you change. he will tell you what you want to hear as long as your doing what he wants you to do. but the moment you find your backbone he is gone.
2007-08-21 01:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
win i was in highschool i had a very bad crush on this really cute rich snobby guy,i went to the fair,that weekend,and he was there,he ask me to go into the haunted house with him,and i thought,great,,well once we were inside,he tried to attack me,i slapped him,n kicked him n the...u no what...im not sayoing all guys snobby guys r like him,but just b carefull what u wish for,,good luck in love and happiness
2007-08-21 01:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want a person like that? looks aren't everything, character is. His seems to be lacking.
2007-08-21 01:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just dont be very nice or polite.. just be brash, rude and intimidating urself.. then he will start paying attention..
2007-08-21 01:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋