I have a friend, who is a girl. I like her a LOT! Recently I asked her 'would you like to go out for lunch'? she said yes, and I added that 'I'm paying'. She giggled and said 'sure, but I'll pay next week' (she wants to go out again next week).
Now does that constitute as a 'date'? I'm taking her out to lunch (can't do dinner due to both of us being busy).
How can I convey that I am asking her out as more than a friend?
2007-08-21 01:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by hrf1007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it easy...yes, it does constitute a "date" but in the least formal terms possible, and that's a good thing. She's already open to having lunch with you a second time, so all you have to do is not do something stupid to mess that up and you've got it made. The main thing is, don't move too erratically and scare her off...enjoy her company and give her time to enjoy yours without getting into any heavy topics.
2007-08-21 01:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need at this point. She'll get the message soon enough. Remember to make good eye contact (turns women on) and be interested in what she has to say. A sweet hug at the end of the day should send the message. In this day and age, it's okay if she wants to pay next week. It will sort itself out in the days to come. Meantime, enjoy her company.
2007-08-21 08:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by red 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i call lunch a "day"date but i would ask her out to dinner take her to a nice place, pay for it, and then maybe to like a beach and look up at the stars, something romantic. dont try to get in her pants!!
2007-08-21 08:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that your interested, she knows that already. Maybe she might be unsure. Try holding her hand when you guys go out on your next date. Then try kissing her in a romantic way. You might steal her heart. Who knows? She might end up being your girlfriend some day.
Good Luck!
2007-08-21 08:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I cannot tell whether she thinks it's a date or not but from your words of her giggling and jokin around about going out again with you I highly doubt that she sees it "just a hang out"!
Good luck!
2007-08-21 08:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Larissa_Antipov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her when u 2 go out next week and b friendly and smile with her alot
2007-08-21 08:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Vannie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her out for dinner i think thats more obvious
2007-08-21 08:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by David Tan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already stole her heart ...now give it back so I can have it!!!
2007-08-21 08:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her 'a friend asked me if your my girlfriend or not. what should i say?'
simple...i think
2007-08-21 08:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings. see what she says.
2007-08-21 08:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋