I know this girl, whom I only kissed once and nothing has happened between us since.She didn't want to go further,so we remained friends.We met up this wkn with a group of friends and we ended up chatting alone after clubbing about 'US'!
The question which stuck in my head is:
1. Why don't I do 1 night stands? 2.Why am I so against them?
Does this mean she wanted something to happen that night? We were also cuddling tightly/kissing each other on the neck/cheek a lot!
Please be honest ladies.....
p.s. nothing happened,not even a snog and I don't do 1 night stands!
2007-08-21 00:35:31 · 19 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would the friendship have ended if we had sex?
2007-08-21 00:44:58 · update #1
she's probably quizzing you to find out if you just say you don't like them or if you actually mean it. Us women find guys like you intriguing, especially if the only guys who have chatted us up recently are only after the one night thing...Your answers to those questions would have shed some light on your personality without you even realising it. The fact that nothing happened between you that night has proved to her that you are 'pure of heart' in other words, truthful. Unusual in the clubbing world, don't you think? Depending on your answers to those questions and your actions afterwards, you probably stand more of a chance at an actual relationship with her than you did before.
2007-08-21 00:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by gothicmamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you know it would be a one night stand? Maybe she doesn't do one night stands either. Maybe because you had acted like a gentleman before, she trusted you a little. Maybe she likes you. Maybe she is really turned on by the fact that you haven't tried to force yourself on her. Maybe in 10 years, you'll be mowing the lawn while she plays with the babies. Maybe you are living in your head a little too much.
2007-08-21 00:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wanted more to happen but didnt want you to think she was easy, hence her question (Why dont you do 1 night stands). She may really like you, but is worried that if after going a bit further with you, will it ruin what you already have
2007-08-21 00:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the relationship would have ended coz it sounds to me that she just wanted that & you are a true gentlemen 4 not taking advantage of the situation & not having 1 nyt stands.
2007-08-21 00:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman cannot be judged easily! Idont understand why you guys say all she wanted was sex! I MEAN HOW DO YOU KNOW?It seems that you guys hada chance to get to know her!!!?
Im a lady and dont like people call me "easy" ,"cheap"...The majority of women do not look for sex only. They need something more then that.
2007-08-21 01:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah! But it is nice to hear you are a guy with integrity! She probably was just ashamed to come out with what she really wanted from you. Some girls are just that way. We like it more when guys come on to us, makes us feel like we are attractive. Keep up the good morals! I commend you for that!
2007-08-21 00:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by gmoney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm pretty certain she was dropping hints that she wanted you to sleep with her and nothing else! Steer clear mate, if you're not into knoe night stands then she's not the kind of girl you need around.
2007-08-21 00:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Stitch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont know why u dont do 1 night stand and the way u explain is wasnt gonna be one... one night stand is doing it and never seeing the person again.. doing it n then seeing the person after and possible doing it again isnt a one nighter
2007-08-21 00:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by antoinio i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me commend you on not "doing one night stands" I think they are cheap and meaningless myself. But that is exactly what she was after. No commitment. Just raw one night sex.
2007-08-21 00:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she wanted a one night stand, but good for you not wanting to get involved and having self respect. sex should be about feelings and not just sex.
2007-08-21 00:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kat Moonsstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋