These are the reasons I am very shy and have social anxiety disorder. I really want a b/f and close relationship because I am so lonely and long for that closeness.
2007-08-21 00:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your question has two parts to it. One, the never had a boyfriend part and two, being a virgin.
I'll respond to part 2 first because it's easier :P Being a virgin is NOT a problem. Sex is something that you do when you're ready. It can be PART of the relationship but NOT the relationship. If a man can't respect you for being a virgin or choosing to stay a virgin until you're ready, too bad for him, it's his problem and not yours. Be comfortable with yourself and love yourself for being you. You're not here to conform with other people's perceptions or expectations. People view you the way you see yourself.
Now to Part 1. If you social anxiety disorder, you might want to work with a counsellor to address the issue. Joining some activities that you have an interest in may help you to expand your network of friends and you'll realize that that there are many, many people out there that are similar to you. And even if they're not, hey, at least you've expanded your horizon.
Best of luck and take care!
:D
2007-08-21 00:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Been There 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem. The problems being that I'm 20 and haven't been on a date in almost three years. But being a virgin is not a "problem", so let's make that clear... I also am one. I'm a shy guy that has a hard time meeting girls. I find that I'm too mature for most girls my age, too. Sometimes I also get lonely and wish I had someone to share my thoughts and feelings with...
But they tell me to have patience, and someone will come along...
2007-08-21 00:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They smile on your face, all of the time they want to take your place, the lower back stabbers...ever play poker smile and win? Smile is a tell and you will't bluff in case you're smile is authentic...yet once you have not something a grin will save them guessing. i don't understand approximately the place you reside yet around right here...there are lots of loopy people who've that responsible as sin grin, you're able to ask your self what they are as much as.
2016-11-13 01:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a problem, you should throw yourself a party for keeping your virginity, watch as you get alot of answers that say " you should give it up" becuase they just threw it away like it was nothing, virginity is suppose to be sacred, look at all the dirty pregnant infested 15 year old girls having sex, they didnt care, so go ahead and go to the store and buy some cake and balloons,
2007-08-21 00:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by 9-pounds-lighter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every man needs to be a b/frnd to a girl like u. why dont u express ur self more. 4get the people u know. then read allot on lovelly stores, and b4 u sleep open wide ur legs and start practice calculating how much feelings u hav. my be u will hav power to snatch the best man u need by ur deep feelings.
2007-08-21 00:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by ankoliza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend is 27 and is still a virgin and has never had a girlfriend.
2007-08-21 00:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a virgin but its been so long i feel like a reborn virgin so i guess i feel ur pain.
2007-08-21 00:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by dc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation, except i turn 23 september 10th...keep your head up girl, good luck and hey, email me, I'll talk to ya
2007-08-21 00:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can i belive it.I may assume that you are lieing.Every human being must have minimum one friend.Either it may be your school mate,college mate,or even your neighbor.
2007-08-21 00:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya...I m interested in Your frienship.....can we chat online...
tell me ur id?
2007-08-21 00:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Arun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋