A question concerning, "finding fault".?

Question

Why is it so difficult for some human beings to understand that "finding fault" with another human being is of no benefit to either party?

Fault finding is like a cancer to mankind!

Being an example is the best teacher.

If a human being locates and discards all their own faults, they will no longer find faults in others.

A human need not quote anything from any book to know that "finding fault" is not what God expects of his children.

Answer 1

In the conditioned stage, one's conceptions of life are sometimes polluted by passion and ignorance, which are exhibited by attachment, hostility, greed, lamentation, illusion, fear, madness, false prestige, insults, fault-finding, deception, envy, intolerance, passion, bewilderment, hunger and sleep.

We are finding fault with so many things. But really we should find fault with this process of repetition of birth and death. People are now being educated in this way that there is no more life. You have got this life and you enjoy the senses as far as possible.

t’s easy to come up with excuses for criticizing and finding fault with others who are doing their best to serve the Supreme Lord. But if we consider who is guiding them and why these guides teach as they do, we’ll see that our criticism is unfair. Sometimes the most exalted saint teaches in a circumstance where only lesser truth can be communicated, acting like a graduate professor teaching six-year-olds. We should remember that everyone needs to progress from his or her present position. So why fault the students or teachers in a religious system that teaches less than the highest knowledge and process?

Answer 2

well humans are free to think for themselves, & they are influenced by the ruler of this world Satan 2 cor 4:4 but true christians work to over come that fault
(Colossians 3:5-11) 5 Deaden, therefore, YOUR body members that are upon the earth as respects fornication, uncleanness, sexual appetite, hurtful desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 On account of those things the wrath of God is coming. 7 In those very things YOU, too, once walked when YOU used to live in them. 8 But now really put them all away from YOU, wrath, anger, badness, abusive speech, and obscene talk out of YOUR mouth. 9 Do not be lying to one another. Strip off the old personality with its practices, 10 and clothe yourselves with the new [personality], which through accurate knowledge is being made new according to the image of the One who created it, 11 where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, foreigner, Scyth′i‧an, slave, freeman, but Christ is all things and in all.

Answer 3

If done correctly it is a benefit. As Christians we are to first look at our selves and ask God to show us our faults so that we can correct them. If we see a Brother or Sister going astray and we can in kindness redirect that brother or sister in the proper path then we have preformed a great service for our brothers or sisters realizing that God get all the Glory because we are just His hands and feet.

Answer 4

if you do it in a kind loving way you can help the person at fault - you cant just let someone you love to continue doing something that is wrong/unhealth/sinful whatever - if you love that person you want them to do it the right/good way

Answer 5

some churches seem to teach /encourage the judging of others, why? Has the fallen one snuck into the church and tricked us into thinking judging others is gods way.