my ex has been calling me a LOT lately.not for any reason specificly,but (this may sound odd) its kinda ticking me off.and i kinda get the feeling he has something to say but just wont say it.how do i tell him to,idk,stop calling me??should i find out if he actually DOES need to tell me something first??thanks for reading this.
2007-08-20 13:39:47 · 18 answers · asked by channelle k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am taken...so im not really expecting anything...nor am i interested.
2007-08-20 13:48:52 · update #1
i am intersested in what he has to say though...
2007-08-20 13:52:29 · update #2
find out what he has to say but i bet he wants to try and get you back.
2007-08-20 13:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by medicine_man_rn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls, just come out and say it, Do you have something to say- if so say it - if not stop calling before I file harrassment charges on you. This way you drive the point to him that you mean business. Second option is to change the phone number or see if you can block it out.
2007-08-20 13:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cougar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, tell him to cut to the chase and speak what is on his mind... this will be his last and only opportunity to do so. Tell him that if he bugs you after that, you will file a restraining order.
The next thing will be to block his phone number.
He is your EX for a reason, capice?
It sounds like he has hit a dry spell and trying for a hook-up.
2007-08-20 13:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Answer the phone and be like "Hey, is there something you really need to tell me?" And if he says no then say "Well, please stop calling me." Then again, maybe he will eventually stop calling you if you continue to ignore him. But I would at least answer once when he calls and ask him that.
2007-08-20 13:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. be like "well honestly im kind of wondering why youre calling me. do you have something say to say, because if you do id really appreciate if youd just tell me because i find it a little strange that you, my ex, is calling me so much"
hope it helps, good luckk!
2007-08-20 13:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is your ex.. maybe he does want to say something.. but what is it that you really want to hear from him? Ask him what does he want? Be open minded and listen but don't be no fool... and never let anyone treat you less than who you are..........It's always easy to watch someone else's movie and critic it...
2007-08-20 13:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by van 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The probable easiest way to handle this would just confront him on the phone about it, something like "you know we are broken up, and if you have something to say i'll listen..." Something like that. It worked for me! :)
2007-08-20 13:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say unless you have something you need to say to me then stop calling me i am over you
2007-08-20 13:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex is talking again so but i really like talking to her i would come out and just say what is on ur mind ur making me mad so either tell me what u want or never call again. i know its rude but at least it might work.
2007-08-20 13:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can ask him if he has a purpose or just wants to be annoying, otherwise, stop answering! he'll get the hint that u don't wanna talk or at least state his case on vm.
2007-08-20 13:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Angelface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him flat out that if he has something to tell you then he needs to tell you. if he doesn't have anything to say then don't call because it is annoying you. tell him that you are there for him if he needs something but only then.
2007-08-20 13:47:15 · answer #11 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋