I mean, If they have done it once, surely they could do it again?
My ex decided he was confused, so disappeared (not answering txt or call wise) for 3 weeks, now is back saying it's all suddenly clear, Im all he wants ect ect.... but are second chances really worth the effort to only be back to square one again?
2007-08-20 12:46:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever been given a second chance?
Where you glad you got it? To prove you could do it, do it better, or to now know something for-sure?
Everyone deserves a second chance. Less than 10% deserve a third.
2007-08-20 12:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to life, there is no excuse for no communication if he was confused he should have told you that and gotten some feed back right in the beginning.
No relationship is worth it without true friendship and friends dont just ignore or walk away from friends=to true love first from above
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and help from above for true love more than a fantacy for today and the future too=and a drop of advice in frienship turned to true love= first you get married and you dont need a condom which doesnt protect the heart and the rest of the things will fit into place instead of disgrace
"In marriage the bed is undefiled, but all the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
and some help from above
true love
spoken from heaven Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to turn to me from sin, even one past lie. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in I will com in and be your friend and you mine." Jesus
so I prayed, "Im sorry for my sins, come into my heart and be my friend, thanks for loving me enough to die to forgive me, amen."
Now life is grand
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i totally believe in what you say and i'm a christian too. it's nice how you share your testamony through correct answers. Thanks a lot!
Have a nice day and remember there is a way-prayin for you in that way
2007-08-20 20:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him??? if you do try get into his mind and help him and try understand him.... he could be going through alot in his mind and just needed to break away from everything.. ok u can be pissed that he ddnt get in contact in 3 weeks.... (us guys do have a tendancy to play mind games with women) such as stunts for attention and that could be what he was doing a stunt... but dont ignore the fact that he may have issues.. if u love him give him a second chance... but then again dont let any man make u feel sad for no reason.. women deserve the same respect they give... so if u are giving him chance number 2 make sure u put the foot down...
2007-08-20 19:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves a second chance.I got second chances and I gave second chances as well so its up to you.It does not necessarily mean that they will do it again and obviously if they do it again there is no such thing as a third chance so thats an excuse.All u have to kp in mind is that we all make mistakes and you will need a second chance when that tym comes in yo life too..
2007-08-20 19:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by nickygal25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defenetly make him show you that he is sure he wants to be with you and is not "confused" about it. If you feel you want to let him back in again and give him another chance, then do it. Only you can decide that. You're taking a risk by giving him another chance, but also risking letting him go.
2007-08-20 19:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY if getting a divorce would put a financial strain on you - if there are no kids, no shared property, no marriage, no business ventures together, than I say NO!!
If a partner can't or won't stick around and WORK THINGS OUT TOGETHER so you both can be on the same page, then in my book, they really only care about themselves - not the relationship - - sorry.
2007-08-20 19:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea of course causeeverybody deserves a second chance but if they dont learn from their mistakes and do it again then too bad no more 3 chance cause twice is enough so yea give that person a second chance to see if he or she have change. your not going to know unless you tried. i would so yea but think first its only if you still have feelings forim or her only.
2007-08-20 19:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by WILD_V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance except for Michael Vick.
2007-08-20 19:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was given a second chance but it didnt feel lik one. it was something that had to be worked on over and over till it got better and still has a slight reminder if ever brought up. which would be bad. anyways secodn chance is more like a patch that needs to be fixed. if you fixed it right then it will be ok. if not it will tear and may even get bigger.
2007-08-20 19:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by big H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience people deserve one chance and if they mess up they shouldnt be allowed to make the same mistake again so shouldnt get another chance.
Ive been in that situation It ended horribly so I may be a little biased but still. it doesnt seem to work.
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2007-08-20 20:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋