2007-08-20 12:25:29 · 7 answers · asked by alison b 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
please give us more information, i dont understand why your wife is moaning, i am a 27yr old female whose mum has just been given the all clear for breast cancer, is she moaning about you checking up on your mum? etc, if you could edit a bit more information,i maybe able to help a little, i am so sorry about your mum, what kind of cancer is it? is it curable? dont mean to ask so many questions,but i so want to support you,please add more info, my thoughts are with you. i have also lost my mother in law to brain tumours 4yrs after she was diagnosed with lung cancer and given the all clear,my grandad also had lung cancer.
2007-08-20 12:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by stokies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mum is a priority at this point in time. But have you sat down and explained your feelings to your wife. Im sure if you tell her about the way u feel she will try and help. Involve your wife with whats going on. Teamwork!
2007-08-20 22:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by brawscotsladdie2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i take it that your wife hasn't had anyone in her family with cancer. if she had she would realise how frightening for your mum this is. i lost my father 2 years ago to cancer and i know what pressures your family are under. try to explain to your wife that this is a very frightening time for your mum and that you want her to know that you are there to support her. there are also leaflets that can be obtained from your gp and the hospital that explain the facts and the worries of the families involved. good luck and i wish your mum the very best .
2007-08-20 12:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife thanks for the support compassion and tender love?who did you marry someone from the gestapo?you need support its your mum and your mum needs you so what if she moans but how will you feel ,if you are not there for your mum I hope all goes well and you are stressed enough just now you need a lot of support tell your wife how you feel,and why is she being like this?
2007-08-24 06:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and not be so bloody selfish! My mother had a cancer scare couple of years ago, I went to the specialist with her etc. took her to apts - if my husband had moaned it's what I would have told him.
Hope your mum's doing OK - if she needs help and you want to help her - do it, sometimes we only get one chance.
2007-08-20 22:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by groovymaude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think ur wife should be concerned about ur mom and quit moaning about you calling for the time of the blood test. your moms health is more important
2007-08-21 10:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by renae2007_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife needs to grow up and show consideration for others.
I am not in favour of poeple being tied to their mother's apron strings, but if your wife can't understand that your Mother needs consideration and support at a time like this, then your wife is not deserving of your consideration on this matter.
2007-08-20 12:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tarkarri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋