My friend just got turned down by the girl he loved, but this isn't a normal turn down though. He was dumb enough to ask why she turned him down which lead to him learning that she considers him more of a big brother and that a relationship between them would never work out. Then he was retarded enough to make a deal that he would recognize that they could never be together and he would never try to ask her again. The guy is a nice guy, but he is friends with a chick magnet who is perfect at doing everything. That is who the girl has a crush on and the reason he stood no chance of dating her. I'm the guy closest friend and was rooting for him but he told me that that was one reason she wouldn't date him because there were alot of people trying to help him with her. Now his whole life from that day has been a emotional rollercoaster, he seems to be trying to get himself to hate the girl but I know his love for her is too strong. Please help me with situation.
2007-08-20 10:36:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also the guy has depression episodes when he sees the girl in any form be it picture, just her name, or in real life. He has also seen some of her blogs(she has alot of those things too). In those she addresses her feelings for the chick magnet and how my friend is stopping her from getting to the guy. How can my friend be in this much turmoil and she be just fine and peachy still trying to get the chick magnet. Here is another question if you can answer it please do. Should he still see her even though he made that dumbass deal or should he cut connections with her and pursuit some other girl, maybe one who shares the same feelings as he does?
2007-08-20 10:49:53 · update #1
The best thing you can do is keep him busy and out of trouble. Find things to do and a couple new people to meet, and he'll get over her eventually.
2007-08-20 10:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl hasn't grown up yet.
She is attracted to excitement, not stability.
been there, done that. To bad they missed their chance at me.
The last one to do that to me married the guy which lasted less than a year. Then she was back at it. Some take a long time to learn the lesson, some never do.
It is difficult if you don't understand it, but she is right on one thing, until she grows up nothing will work.
best to move on then to wait, there is a great girl just waiting to meet a stable guy.
2007-08-20 17:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bill R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋