I have a severe aniexty problem
And since Saturday ive been wondering whether to do it...
i really think i want to tonight
My best friends abandoned me and i have no hope of getting better yet =[ no tablets have worked and i havnt been able to leave my house in two months.
Anyone got any advice to help me push thoughts of suicide out of my mind?
2007-08-20 10:31:31 · 38 answers · asked by Joanna P 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
ill be ur friend :)
2007-08-20 10:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Moo 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Suicide is never the right option. Your going through a rough time, but going through this will make easier things alot more enjoyable and you will appreciate life more. Please, have hope. Don't give up on yourself, you are better than that. And you know deep down, that someday you will be happy with your life. You just have to follow your heart, forget the bad times, and look to the future.
If you have anxiety, you just need to solve the issue. I know it will be hard at first, but your going to have to see your Doctor about it. And have a serious chat about getting more help. And it WILL help.
Friends come and go, the ones that stay are the real ones. Don't low yourself, its not YOU thats the problem. Keep strong, you will make new friends. Nothing will get worse unless you allow it to.
You have to be strong, hold your head up high. You want to go out of your house? Just do it. Try, you can. Get out in the sunshine, take a nice walk.. Realise what patentiol you have on this Earth. Everyone can be "somebody".. Don't take your life away.
2007-08-20 11:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by indigo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! I attempted and almost lost my life last year... I now realize it would have been the biggest mistake ever now that I see how much I have to live for... You are obviously crying for help... Go to the hospital now... Tell them you are suicidal... Don't think about the reprecussions... A hospital ward is not that bad trust me... I had no friends when I attempted... At least I didn't think I did... But after they heard they came pouring out of the woodwork... I thought I had nothing in my life... My family and I were estranged, I hadn't spoken to any of my friends in months... Work was suffering, and I felt cold inside... A shell of a human being... I am the self help book amongst my friends now because they see the dramatic changes in me... I ended up on meds for a little while and in therapy for months and it was a lot of hard work but well well worth it... I am happy, vibrant, beautful and intelligent and just 10 months ago I thought I was fat, lazy, worthless, and pretty much dumb... Things come around... And i had a lot of bumps and bruises... Some relapses but after it was all said and I done I wouldn't have changed a thing except gotten help sooner so I didn't overdose... Please get help now... Tell someone... Scream it! And go right to the nearest emergency room!
2007-08-20 11:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Angel_Mom of 2 Pretty Girls 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t think suicide is ever the right answer. Think about how much you would be hurting those around you that love you and really care about you! There will always be hard times in your life and it may seem like your all alone in this world but I can guarantee their are family members and other friends out there that do love and care about you. So you really need to do some thinking and ask yourself "is my life so bad that I would rather die than continue on with it". Or, "Yes my life is pretty bad right now and I am hurting but I am going to suck it up get out of the house and meet some new people and make some new friends! Anxiety is something that you can overcome yourself with out any medications if you have the willpower that is. I hope you make the right decision.
2007-08-20 10:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Emerald_Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deffinately don't want to. you only get one life, and you shouldn't end it,because no matter how corney it sounds, its wayyy to precious. You have to have some hope. What about family? How old are you anyway? You may think that medicine won't help, but you need the right type and right dosage. Ask someone in your family for help, or call a helpline, theres also hospitals that help so much for this type of stuff. The doctors are great, and they'll help you through your tough times and will work with you to get the right medicine. You say that you can't leave your house, however maybe you could get a therapist to come out to your house. Also, i know a lot of times people who are suicidal get a pet, something to care for, and to love, and in return, they love you as well. It's a great remedy, and would keep your mind off any unwanted thoughts. Please, don't do this, there are people out there who care about you a lot, wether you know it or not, or if you've met them or not, they're there. Concider me, as one of those people who care. Please, look for help, it will do wonders and you can get back to your life.
2007-08-20 10:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
call your local crisis hotline they will be glad to help you however they can. I was where you are a few years ago. Consider this is a chemical imbalance in your brain and until the balance can be restored you won't be better . To do that you need a professional. Committing suicide only stops your life here which restored can be wonderful. It doesn't help the problem. I finally got help after 45 years and I am depressed at times but never think of suicide. My life is so much better now. Please pick up the phone dial your crisis call center or 911 they will get you to somebody who can help.
2007-08-20 10:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Gary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry that you feel this way. I wish I knew who you were and where you lived so I could personally help you. However, this is not a likely scenario that you live near me. I want you to realize that there are people out there who truly care for you.
I know you probably dont want to hear this but here it goes. I am a Christian, and were it not for my faith I would likely not be here today. Even when all my friends left me (or I left them) I could still turn to the Lord for help. Even if you don't believe there is a God I challenge you to find a church (any church) and tell them what you told us. I guarantee you 100% that they will do anything they can to help you (and so would I). I also guarantee you that any self respecting Christian would be more than happy to be your friend. And you wouldn't even have to agree with us either, if you dont want to hear about Christianity they will not abandon you.
I know life is hard right now but if someone who has never met you truly cares for you, how much more does the Lord care for you?
Please dont do it, this world needs you, whether you know it or not.
2007-08-20 10:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Joanna, I don't know who you are but I do care about you. I had a brother who committed suicide so let me tell you how it affects those you leave behind. I cried every single day for over a year and a half. I was completely devastated I can not even put into words the pain this caused me I wanted to die too to end my misery but I just couldn't afford the "luxury"cause you see 4 kids called me mom and I just couldn't do to them what my brother did to me when he selfishly took the easy way out. I had 2 best friends and they abandoned me too(maybe they weren't as best as I thought) What I have learned is I am a survivor like you are and when we reach out for help like you are it is our survival instinct kicking in. Hang in there and you have my word things will get better.I will keep checking back here for your reply.God be with you in your time of need.
2007-08-20 10:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by jade_2011 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself. Please. I know what it's like. Sometimes you feel like you just can't cope any more and all you can think about is how to get all this stuff to go away, so you don't have to stay in this pit you seem to have slid into.
You say you are anxious and this is stopping you going out of your house. What are you frightened of if you go out? Do you think your life is in danger outside? How is this avoided by killing yourself? Isn't that just fulfilling the wishes of whoever it is outside that you think will hurt you?
I've been in the same sort of pain, and I found that playing online games and meeting people online that way helped. You could try that. At the very least, it gives you something else to think about while you're playing and chatting to people in the game. Do what you can to make your life more fun, and gradually you will find ways to overcome your problem. It may take a bit of time, but it's worth it.
2007-08-20 10:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not you that is creating the thoughts of suicide, but its hard to believe, but negative spirits. They are feeding on your depression,
You are a living creature that support an entire Eco system in your body. When you die, a lot of other things die with you. The things that work hard to keep you alive in your body just don't give up, and you shouldn't either.
Friends will come and go, but you are forever.
I don't know if you are religious, but this chant was one of the most important things I was thought by someone to help me out.
When you chant, you will say the ancient name of GOD.
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
but you might know it as
Youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu like you you, but it is HU.
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Just continue as much as you can, and start again. The chant breaks the hold of evil. It will shatter them, with the more effort you put into it. When you have a bad thought, say no Block it. Do not let the thought continue on its own.
This is something i am happy to share with someone else who can use it. I hope you live long, and share this with anyone else who needs it.
If i can help more, email me.
2007-08-20 10:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by NICK A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever things are good
whatever things are pure
whatever things are honest
whatever things are lovely
think about these things..
listen to the birds
look at the flowers
feel the rain
draw a picture
listen to some mustic
think about things that are pleasant.
focus on finding other people to befriend and serve.
I understand abandonment, and the feelings - I know.
my wife died and everyone but a few vanished, I was abanonded, and it feels awful. but my life isn't just about one person or many people there's more.
you can't think so short sightedly -
suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem
just dismiss the thought - don't allow yourself to think this way anymore,a nd if you can't then please get help.
2007-08-24 09:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋