I know this wonderful girl she tells me things that my girlfriend has never says to me she makes me happy and shes always there for me she supports the things I do and she is so CUTE! and we fell in love and we were made for each other! but we fell in love behind my girl friend's back...and I love her too My girlfriend she is there for me sometimes... but she tells me what to do and she is a bit mean and she never says anything nice as what the wonderful girls says I feel I need to be with my girlfriend but my heart says wonderful girl...see and then the wonderful girl I met says I have to choose one or the other soon.what should I do?!
2007-08-20 10:02:11 · 41 answers · asked by Helena K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell you girlfreind what's going on, and that you're in love with someone else. follow your heart or you'll never be happy
2007-08-20 10:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by hunter_o_redheads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the other losers that answered are losers. Obviously we know your sexuality, jeez people! Yes, she's a lesbian...now moving forward.
This other girl is great, but you're experiencing the rush of a new relationship so she seems AMAZING. Just some food for thought: If your girlfriend finds out you have/had a thing with wonderful girl then she might dump YOU.
Talk to the girlfriend about maybe being nicer and move forward with that relationship...you never know if wonderful girl will be that great after a long time.
2007-08-20 10:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. If you just lacking the wonderful things this girl is telling you, then no! Have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her what you want as far as giving you compliments, etc. It just sounds like you like her more because of these wonderful things she tells you. It's unfortunate you had to have a girlfriend while meeting this other girl. I wouldn't suggest doing that again as you can break other peoples hearts. I would just take a break from them both and try and sort out your feelings. Good Luck on this one.
2007-08-20 10:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Miss YSL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing...this girl may seem perfect now, but think back: did your current girlfriend act mean in the beginning of your relationship? Relationships deteriorate sometimes, and if you choose this new girl she may turn out to be the same way after you've been together awhile. If you're not happy with your current girlfriend, don't stay with her...just don't leave her ONLY because of this new girl. Really think about what you want and what will make you happy.
2007-08-20 10:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by lafemelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should have done this all the right way. If you wanted to be with someone else, you should have broken it off with your girlfriend first and then went forth. What you did was dishonest and heartless.
I've got two sayings for you that I think really stand out in this situation.
1) What's done in the dark will come to light.
2) You reap what you sew.
You won't have to worry about what to do soon. You'll be to busy dealing with your own heartache and explaining why you were "woman" enough to handle it correctly in the first place.
2007-08-20 10:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jayda J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit to your girlfriend how your feeling and decide who you want to be with. Don't cheat on your girlfriend, break up with her if you want to be with the other girl. It might be wise to be on your own for a while to figure out what you really want to do, who you really miss. Is this other girl better or do you just crave attention that your girlfriend isn't giving you? If she would give you what you need would you still want the other girl? Take time to talk to them both and sort out your feelings. Don't take the easy way out and let someone decide for you as this will probably not be what you want. Good Luck!
2007-08-20 10:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by jo_forest_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener. In a relationship it has it's ups and downs. You deal with all the bad stuff too. In an affair, you only deal with the good. Making it magical and filled with only the love stuff.
If you've been cheating, you obviously aren't happy in your current relationship to allow yourself to do so. Your partner deserves to know and have the same opportunity.
You need to let her know and decide to work on your current relationship ending it with the affair or end your relationship so that you and your girlfriend are free to move on and explore other opportunities.
2007-08-20 10:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is from the heart. your mind might say your girlfriend. but eff that. loves from the heart and if your heart says the other girl then you follow that. your heart can be broken. not your mind.
and for everyone else like OMG ***** MUCH. yeah she is obviously. shut up and get a life. did u just have to comment on this. that wasted more time than just clicking home or something. yeah. go somewhere.
2007-08-20 10:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by jules x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the wonderful girl a week in a relationship. After a week dump either the girl or your girlfriend.
Your girlfriend should not know anything until she is dumped. If you choose her, don't tell her anything.
2007-08-20 10:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sarbinargh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off...that is very wrong of you. you should have broke up with your gf at the first sign of falling for someone else. cuz obviously you dont really love your current gf. and as far as the new girl. you need to dump her too. because in the long run, she'll eventually not trust you and wonder if you'd do to her what you did to your current gf. So choose..no...just dont choose either. best to leave them both.
2007-08-20 10:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oviously u like this new girl more, and oviously things w/ur girl arent going so well, so i say, talk to ur girlfriend, tell her that things between u and her have changed, that u dont feel the same way towards her, that u met some1 else,and without wanting to, u started having feelings for her...tell her what shes been doing wrong,and what the other girl does for u, explain to her what caused it, that way she wont blame u completely.
2007-08-20 10:09:50 · answer #11 · answered by like a bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋