my boy friend loves sex he wants me to have sex with him what should i do and i told him i hate sex but he wouldnt understand i al so told him i wanna brake up with him but he still wouldnt understand what should i do plzzzzzz help me
2007-08-20 09:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pal,
Firstly, there is no need for you to have sex any time if you don't want to that is your right! If he can't understand that then he's not the one for you!
But ... very few people hate sex. In my experience where people don't like sex it is for a good reason - usually because they have been mistreated or have had bad experiences.
It is probably a good idea for you to seek help from a professional counsellor if you really think you hate sex.
Otherwise if you just know you're not ready -good on you girl - either he will accept that or he has to go.
Good Luck
Joe
2007-08-20 10:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate is a very strong word and I have never heard anyone characterize Sex in that manner*.. You say your boyfriend loves sex, but how would you know that if you haven't been engaging in it with him*.. If you are not then he has to be getting it from someone else*. How can you hate Sex if you have never engaged in it*? There is something you are not telling us*.. Cannot provide an adequate answer until you provide further information regarding your question*...
2007-08-20 17:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You told him No, and he didn't get it?
You told him you were breaking up with him, and he didn't get it?
Well he sounds like a mental heavyweight.
No means no. Period. It doesn't matter why you say no, it's the word NO that matters.
As for breaking up with him, how can he not understand that? Stop taking his phone calls. Stop calling him. Stop talking to him. If he continues repeat again and again, that you have broken up with him and to leave you alone.
As for sexual issues, it really depends if it's an issue for you. If you believe it is then talk with your doctor about it. They will be able to advise you. It might just be this guy, and a doctor isn't even needed.
2007-08-20 17:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first question would be, how old are you? my first assumption is that you are young. If you are you may not be ready to have sex in the first place. Don't put up with him pressuring you for it.
second, sex usually hurts the first time or so, and if you aren't excited, and turned on it can even hurt worse since there won't be much lubrication there.
third.. definately don't give up on sex!! it can be really great!! but wait for the right one to come along to help you through it!! :) good luck!
2007-08-20 17:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by nikki f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure i'll help you, First see someone about this problem, Sex is one of the best thing in this world. How about you date a 3 yr old who can't have sex than
2007-08-20 17:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by hahaiwon 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you want to break up, then break up. It doesn't go up for a vote. If you two have very different sexual desires, then you are not a good match.
2007-08-20 17:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
HATE it? hm..is that possible? well, if you do..copy and paste your question to your email and email him! thn it will become clear to him, dont you think..?
2007-08-20 17:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Emily H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you draw this conclusion, when you don't even know me?
2007-08-20 18:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey
why dont u like sex?
it is good..........
really!!!
i agree with him....... k k k k k ?????
well if u dun want then ignore him,..........
but sex life is greatt!!!!!!
2007-08-21 01:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
crazy glue your holes shut, that will teach him....
2007-08-21 05:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋