hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-20 09:57:21 · 33 answers · asked by kat5634foru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FORGET HIM
2007-08-20 10:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by momofthree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats the nice thing about intoxication, your emotions get warped. I figure that seeing you again rekindles a spark of memory and what he had with you, especially seeing as how you were with another guy. The biggest set back in a person is there emotions. i honestly dont think he wants anything from you, having not talked for 2 months is quite some time, perhaps hes just wanting to gain a friendship. Takes time to lose and emotion for another.
2007-08-20 10:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by billyjoeelkhorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you my honest opinion, and since I do not know the whole situation I really can't tell you what you should do. Sometimes guys do stupid things and even though you are not together maybe he still misses you. We typically try to move on even though we might still want the one that we were with. I'm not sure of the circumstances of why you broke up with him, so I'm just going to give you something to think about. When you say that you have moved on, do you regret it, do you still think of him in a romantic way, if not then forget him, is so, then consider talking to him and decide whether you want to give him another chance.
2007-08-20 10:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by BJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wants sex. He obviously doesnt want a friend in you or a relationship with you if you haven't seen or heard from him in 2 months. Remember it was a chance meeting and he was drinking so dont expect to much here. The fact that you talked to him gives him the impression you are still interested in him. He is setting you up for a possible booty call contact.
2007-08-20 10:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either wants to sleep with you or to hook up with you again, which is perfectly fine. The part that stinks is that he keeps excusing himself about that fact, and then even denies the whole thing.
Why do you ask this question anyway? Ask yourself instead what do YOU want. If you want something from him, let him know what it is, and go for it. If you don't, well... why bother yourself to stay around.
2007-08-20 10:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Wildan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him that you moved on. especially if he was kissing another girl at the bar...
honestly, even if it worked out for a bit, you will both fall into the same pattern of behavior that led you to break up in the first place...
good luck either way, just dont put out any signals that could be taken the wrong way. be up front.
2007-08-20 10:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hun, I'm not a guy, but this calls for a woman's perspective. Move on. You said you moved on, so keep it that way. If you want to talk to him, go ahead. But if I were you, I would talk to other guys and hit it up! Have fun. Life is too short to live in grief. Forget about him. You're better off without him. =]
2007-08-20 10:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldve left immediately when you saw him at the bar. Until you replace your ex, you should never go near them, old feelings may come back. If he was toxic in your life, stay away. If you think it can work, try again.
2007-08-20 10:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first sentence after hi, says it all. You have not seen or heard from him in 2 months. Nothing more to say.
2007-08-20 10:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG your ex is the biggest jerk wad in the world, he wants everything. This guy has some problem, he wants what he thinks he cannot have instead of appreciating what he has. Be wise, forget him and really move on.
2007-08-20 10:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Doogle Magoogle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first 18 answers have got this right. Pay attention!
2007-08-20 10:04:42 · answer #11 · answered by William R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋