My BF and i have been together for a while now. We've been through so much together, including me wanting to kill myself. But i'm way over that now. Anyways. I told him a while ago, that i want my first time to be with him, and he agreed to it, but HE wanted to wait longer. He's 2 years older than me, and i'm almost 17. I feel ready, and i want to have sex with him. I just want some input.
2007-08-20 09:56:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it... enjoy it and don't tense up.... and use protection
2007-08-20 10:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him? You can not really get over wanting to kill yourself; it’s not like a cold or the flu. You probably thought you wanted too but just like the drama and attention. You sound intellectually immature; you should wait until you are more mature to proceed with this guy.
2007-08-20 10:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by mastermind delinquent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey iam 26 yrs. old male what i think that u should do is wait a little bit longer y r u in a hurry u got pleanty of time to have sex it would be better in the long run besides how do u really know that u want to be with your bf cuz no one really knows what they want when it comes down to that
2007-08-20 10:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by sam m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is super backwards!! LOL!! Just don't force it okay because that can make him not wanna do it at all for a while. Just give him as much time needed. And ask your self this why do you feel you have to do it so bad?
2007-08-20 10:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE's waiting till you turn 18.
2007-08-20 10:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by hahaiwon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready yet..
When you have to ask strangers for input .. you're not ready.
It will happen when it's the right time..
2007-08-20 10:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want to wait? Is he a virgin? I think that you should wait too if you really love him.
2007-08-20 10:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait until you get married? Then your sex will really mean something special.
2007-08-20 10:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by fundamentalist1981 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you're ready, theres nothing stopping you. Just remember it can change relationships.
2007-08-20 10:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ready. you may think you are but your not, just wait till u marry the dude
2007-08-20 10:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know you shouldn't pressure it he might be planning something romantic for your special night. be patient it's the best especially if you love that guy
2007-08-20 10:05:47 · answer #11 · answered by M-D-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋