I some times think that my BF gets off on it.
2007-08-20 09:54:49 · 30 answers · asked by catlover80 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good men, don't. There are people who get off on having the power to make someone upset over them, though, and you should avoid them! I hope that your bf is not the cause of your being sad & depressed!
2007-08-20 09:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Tom T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad fact but true some men do. One thing to keep in mind is the fact that only sadly screwed up people do that sort of thing. Take a break and download Bob Dylans " Forever Young"
2007-08-20 10:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by charlesdclimer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like to see a girl sad or depressed, I like to see them cry, but thats just during sex. Anyway I think you need a new BF. You deserve to be happy.
2007-08-20 10:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like to see men sad and depressed. NO!!! it is more attracitve when people are happy, smiling, laughing, or just enjoying themselves. it makes you want to hang with them cause they are always having fun. So when you are having a bad day turn on a sad song and then when the song is over find one of you favorite happy songs and dance and sing your heart out you will have fun doing it i promise and your spirtis will be lifted!
2007-08-20 10:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If someone gets off on seeing their BFF depressed then they are probably insecure and it makes them feel like the better person if their friend is having problems. But never assume anything, why not talk to your friend about your feelings?
2007-08-20 10:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by 2craz4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on from which point of view u wanna see an exact situation just try for few days to take this though out of your mind and live wiz him as if everything is ok and if u found that your opinion has changed gr8 spend the best moments together but after those few days found some obvious situations leave him coz i think that love also means being happy as much as we can thx take care.
2007-08-20 10:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he's sad an depressed. Your man should always want to see you happy and make sure you remain happy. I think you need to think about if you can see him as your husband , if you cant. Its time to end it
2007-08-20 09:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your Bf is retarded. This is how you get rid of stress, know that your not by yourself god is wit you alwayz, and he alwayz want you to be happy. Breath easy take your time, and do what u got to do to enjoy your life,some people go to hard times, understand and attack the problem. u will be stress free sweetie. or maybe u just need a new bf.
2007-08-20 10:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but some look at it as a chance for them to be the hero and make the woman feel better.
Then again, some guys are just assholes and they want to make the woman feel bad about herself so that she feels like she can't do any better than the guy shes with.
2007-08-20 09:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by JohnB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only sad men that do not deserve a woman do. If you are in that type relationship, get out, make yourself happy, find someone who cares.
2007-08-20 09:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Doogle Magoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋