ok, i met this lad through my mate and yes i do i like him alot i alwayz listen to him when he is down i alwayz try to help him we talk like every day we would ring each other the other night we were talking to 1 in the morning till 4 in the morning. he complements me. we went ice skating and we were holding hands and llinkig arms. today he rang me up and we were talking but this is the second time this has happened he alwayz seem to bring up my mate who introduced me to him.....(my mate gets along with everyone she knows alot of people she even talks to this lads sister)......i am getting this feeling maybe he is talking to me to get to my mate but my mate is already seeing some one but i dont know why i am getting this feeling..........does any body think the same as me?
2007-08-20 09:38:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this sounds a bit hard but you should just let go or you should follow your heart
2007-08-20 09:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget boys missy. Come and get some adventure on the high seas wi' me and me boyos. We be a sailin' fer The Eastern Caribbean soon. If yer want ter join me crew then we be in Dock 3 Port of Liverpool. Be there 8 bells next Monday mornin'
Ye'd make a fine Pirate
2007-08-20 09:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by avastthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's hard to judge because I don't know exactly what he said if he is her ex then it is possible that he still has some sort of feelings for her.Aside that it is through your friend that you met eachother so maybe he feels she is the connection between you two so that's why he brings her name up because you both know a lot about her.If he mentions things like has
2007-08-20 09:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Classy Clarissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think he would be talking to you till 4 in the morning and paying you complements if it were your friend he fancied. He mentions your friend because she is someone you both have in common, I bet if you think about it he mentions other people you have in common, it's only because you don't think he could like you that you are having these thoughts. It sounds to me as if he likes you very much, so enjoy it.
PS don't stay up too late you have to get up in the morning.ha ha
2007-08-20 09:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bezza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he try to get your mate. Your mate is mutual friend and she might be a close friend to him that he respect. Laso might be a good topic or excuse so he can talk to you. He is definately into you. A guy would not talk to you for loooong time from 1am-4am if he is not interested in you. Be patience and be a good friend and listener, he will come to you!
2007-08-20 09:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by RD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can I say, men are a very hard species to work out. Be yourself, stay true to yourself and if things are meant to work out they will. Maybe he chats about your mate as something to say?? Go with the flow and see what happens. Good luck xx
2007-08-20 09:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by bex 33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am assuming you are Australian, female, and your mate is female? If so then if you think this is what is going on then follow your instincts and leave him, if you must hold on to him, then put him through strategic small test, have your mate play along if possible.
2007-08-20 09:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Doogle Magoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he feels that he needs a reason to call you. I think he really likes you. Try to make him feel at ease by talking about you and him and not your mate.
2007-08-20 09:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, maybe. He probably is asking about your friend because he wants to make it seem like he is nice to everyone and cares about your friends and you're life too. Make another move and maybe the fire will start.
2007-08-20 09:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by *Dudette* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him or tell him do not just let it pass
say if this relationship is to continue then we both must tell each other the truth - corny i know but thats what you want isn't it?
good luck hope you end up with kids and a dog one day
:^)
2007-08-20 09:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by looby loo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him directly. "are you talking to me so that you can try to get close to her, or are you talking to me for me?" Maybe he brings her up because she is the only common thread thus far in the "tapestry of your acquaintance
2007-08-20 09:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by Rosebudd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋