I was raped not to long ago and now I am pregnant because of it. What am I suposed to tell my boyfriend. He knows that we haven't had sex with each other.
2007-08-20 08:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by dumb_blonde17123 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am sorry to hear this. If you were raped then he should be understanding. If not, lose him. Rape is a serious thing and if he can't be supportive of you, than you shouldn't be with him. You have bigger problem than what to tell him.
Good Luck!
2007-08-20 09:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Reesie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - well this is where your name dumb blond comes in. If you were raped then why didn't you report it & go for medical attention where they would have given you the morning after pill so you wouldn't get pregnant? And if you were raped why didn't you tell him then instead of now that you are pregnant? On top of that you should be tested for STD's/AIDS because of that rape !!
2007-08-20 16:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends are you planning on having the baby? Then you are going to have to tell him. But if you aren't planning on keeping it, then you don't necessarily have to tell him. But you should ask your self why you haven't told your bf anyways. Being raped is going to effect you in many ways and he won't understand why you are acting or reacting the way you are if he doesn't know. If you don't feel comfortable telling him, maybe you aren't comfortable enough being wtih him.
2007-08-20 16:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jannelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he know you were raped? my guess is just tell the truth. it's not your fault this happened.
2007-08-20 16:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you hide such a thing from him?
2007-08-20 16:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋