Ive become extremely close with my mother. I live away from most people and i haven't had sex in years. I feel extremely desperate for a female in my life. I am also deeply longing to have sex again. Problem is I have some social anxiety issues and i live where there is not many females. I get desperate for contact and i sometimes go in the other room and hug my mother. I got in a frenzy one night and started kissing her ''on the cheek'' and hugging her hard. I even told her how desperate i was for sex then I stormed out in a rage. I feel like I can't live without her. My father passed away and since then it's been hell. I became depressed. What should I do about this?
2007-08-20 08:17:02 · 40 answers · asked by jb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some help with your social anxiety - whether that is a medication like paxil or whether that is just forcing yourself to take a risk. Do it before you end up hurting mom.
There may also be women in the same situation you are in. What about going to an internet dating site? You may find someone who lives closer than you think and would have less anxiety because you would get to chat with her online and get to know her first. At best you might find your soul mate who will understand you or at the very least maybe you will find a gal who is interested in a fling.
2007-08-20 08:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your problem is not sex, or your mom's affection. Your problem is your anxiety and your social issues. you need to seek help right away. Go see a counselor, if that doesn't work go see a psychologist, there are many ways to fight social anxiety and depression. You nor your mom should even think about having an incestuous relationship no matter how desperate you are.
2007-08-20 08:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well no wonder you keep your questions and answers private. Your full of crap straight up you are and you know it. Your just trying to get attention on the internet and that is very sad.
However if you have social anxiety issues go to the dr there are medications that can help you out. If you must have sexual relations and believe me your not going to die without it then go to a hooker if you have to. You know your momma dont want you I'd have whoop the **** outta you personally.
2007-08-20 08:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you have THOSE kinds of feelings for your Mom? There's nothing wrong with hugging and kissin' on the cheek...or feeling like you can't live without Mom. Ask her to help you find someone special for you.
2007-08-20 08:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by What Lil' Girls R Made Of... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok that is disturbing I really hope ur not looking to have sex with ur mother. But just go out and find a girl and go on dates with that girl and then ask her to marry u then have sex with her...hows that. Just plz dont tell me u want have sex with ur mom. That is just plain wrong!
2007-08-20 08:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~Havanas~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even at school there are no girls? Have you tried Myspace.com? Maybe you can meet a female that has a car and can meet you at your town after you get to know eachother. Sounds like you don't drive or else i assume you would have tried OTHER towns for girlfriends.
2007-08-20 08:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor or conselor about your problems. join a single network, either on the computer or not. maybe try a makeover, and put yourself out there! yes it is scary but there are plenty of women out there. you wont find the "one" right away but at least you'll have some experience with talking to women. good luck hunny and best wishes!
2007-08-20 08:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by million$? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should seek some therapy, you are grieving and seeking comfort in an inappropriate manner but this is normal behavior. you need osmeone to help you learn how to cope and get on with life
God Bless You
My condolences on your loss
2007-08-20 08:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by msijg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. I know all about social anxiety, I've had it for years. if you must have sex, wait till your mother isn't going to be home for a while, and "call" someone in.. you'll have to pay for it, but it will be sex, and it'll probably be good.
2007-08-20 08:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by freespirit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG this reminds me of a movie can't quite remember the name...but he did have sex with his mom, regretted it and ended up faking his death to get away. Dude get out, pay someone but MOTHERS ARE OFF LIMITS
2007-08-20 08:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by JustaGIRL 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋