That would be me (the 51 year old woman) and I don't notice men checking me out, that is, very rarely, like once a year or so. Then it is a guy in his 70's.
I am ok looking, look maybe a little younger than 51, but I am no ex-supermodel. And I've had no "work".
PS I am happily married, but everyone's ego could use a boost.
2007-08-20 08:03:09 · 19 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Happily married or not, we all need a little boost once in a while, specially when they are hard to come by from out own partners, spouses or lovers! As women mature and the youthful sexiness of latter years does not surface because time, obligations and gravity have taken their toll, it is a woman's duty to replace the physical attractiveness with true womanly qualities. I have seen many women well into their 40s, 50s, and 60s that have that certain air of self-assurance and carry themselves in such sexy and confident ways that whatever they are missing physically, does not even come into play! There are ways that mature women can dress to bring attention to themselves without being trashy, slutty or cheap! You may not always notice men checking you out but always remember that there is a cup for every saucer and a seat for every rump, so there will always be a score of men 'checking you out'!!! We men are attracted to females for myriad reasons and age is no deterrent, believe me! The next time you have the chance, dress up sexy but not trashy, go to the grocery store, a department store or the mall, and be purposely conscious of the men who turn to check you out. You'll be pleasantly surprised at how many of us will turn our heads! You don't need any 'work' in order to attract a male's attention!
2007-08-20 08:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they do. Men, do look at us. I too, am 51 years old, almost 52 years old. I do not know what you are working with, but I am working with enough, to get them to look at me. Even the younger ones. Most say, I don't look my age.
They are surprise, when I tell them I have a 15 year old Grand Daughter, I actually have 2 other Grand children.
I can understand. Everyone likes, and needs to feel love.
2007-08-20 08:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! Have you ever heard the song "Older Women" by Ronnie McDowell? I myself find nothing sexier than a lady who has learned about living and giving. Honey you are at your peak right now and the guys that are checking you out are trying to be discreet. Remember, you are married, and they don't want to disrespect you by being so obvious about it. Every young guy dreams about an older woman and guys our age, know that the best are the vintage that has aged well. Enjoy knowing that guys like me are still looking and will keep looking for a long time to come. However, now that I has seen your question I may try to be a little less discreet if it will let those ladies know we still appreciate them!
2007-08-20 08:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by aircraft mech 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I saw this I totally had to answer.. my mom is 52 and I catch guys checking her out all the time. Like you she looks a little younger than her age but shes "no ex super model" and has had no work done. Its funny because I'll go mom that guy was totally checking you out and she will disagree but I know she secretly knows it. So I'm sure tons of guys are and you just don't realize it.
2007-08-20 08:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by dancetilldawn202 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The men checking you out are likely 40 and above, and most men have developed by that age the ability to check a woman out without gaping at her. It probably happens way more than you realize.
(Those 70 year olds have that ability too, but old people just stop caring what people think.)
2007-08-20 08:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Expat Mike 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The ones that get checked out, often look much younger than their years. I'm 8 yrs behind you and I get 'checked out' less and less often as time goes by...it's just part of Life and I can accept that. I know I don't 'check out' many over 50 men...
2007-08-20 08:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 50, why are you worried about it?? I am more confident with myself since I turned 50 then I have ever been in my entire life, and to tell you the truth, I could care less if guys are checking me out because I know who I am and I don't have to prove anything to anyone. I know they are but I'm not looking for it.....
2007-08-20 08:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, I'm 50 and guys still look at me. Ok, they're looking at my bosom probably. I'm top heavy. Alot of guys, most guys, look at younger girls FIRST. If you were in a room and everyone was 51, you'd be getting looked over.
2007-08-20 08:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow maybe youll die first! then what are you gunna do? you know what the say that women live longer then men and shes only 51 so shes got like 40 years and your prolly gunna die soon anyways so why not actually go for love?
2016-05-18 00:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by margart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say guys 10 or 15 years older than you.
2007-08-20 08:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋