I had this teacher when i was in the 7th grade. But when i saw him when i was 18 we ended up having a fling. It seems wrong but then again i was 18 so i really did nothing wrong. Any advice to answer my question
2007-08-20 06:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Lenababi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wasnt old he was like 26 27 at the time. I know it seems kinda grosse and well i had a rebellious period.
2007-08-20 06:16:50 · update #1
It was a long time ago.. well not really long i'm 21 now. But I've been thinking about all the stuff i've done that hasnt been really good. Just looking back at my life and taking it all in to better myself
2007-08-20 06:20:10 · update #2
well this all came about cuz my little sister has him as a teacher and he was asking her about me and well i'd rather her not know for obvious reasons
2007-08-20 06:29:52 · update #3
obviously the feelings were mutual, U, did it and move on,
the path is clear and you walk with experience, just, move on
with ur life and not his...
2007-08-20 06:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is EX.... if he was no longer your teacher, then I don't see anything wrong with it. You were just a woman dating an older man. But why do you care about it anymore if it's alrleady over, anyway...??? You can't take it back..... but I don't think it was gross at all, on the opposite: I'd have LOVED to date a couple of my ex teachers too....!!!
2007-08-20 13:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing illegal about it.
but if it felt wrong to you, then it might have been wrong for you. you have to look at what felt wrong and why. if there is an official power relationship, then our society defines it as wrong. But you were no longer in that relationship - if you were out of his school. if you were still, say a senior in high school in that district then some might judge it as wrong. people have different ideas. if he took advantage of you then that may be wrong on his part. if you felt like he used a power difference to get what he wanted, then it might be wrong, but we expect 18year olds to take care of themselves, even though they often can't.
2007-08-20 13:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Micheal dont be a *****....she's just asking...if you have nothing good to say then dont say jack
Well if you're 18 technically it isn't wrong to have a relationship with you ex-teacher. If you really love or like him...go for it and ignore what anyone says...love is love....if you dont like it...dont say it..
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2007-08-20 13:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were old enough and he was no longer in a position of authority. It's legal. The rest is up to you to decide.
2007-08-20 13:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes like 30 or older no no no you still dont know the first thing about love sweets
2007-08-20 13:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by cbabysnugglebunny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothing wrong with it..ur a little young but its not too wierd
2007-08-20 13:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is a sicko and you are a whore.
next.
2007-08-20 13:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋